First Wedding on the Road – Part 2

Saturday, the day of the wedding, dawned and we headed over to the venue pretty early.  Let me start by saying I didn’t take one single picture the day of the wedding. But we did hire a great professional photographer so once those pictures come in I’ll be adding some of them.  I will also say that this entry has absolutely nothing to do with full timing or camping, so if that’s where your interests lie you may want to skip this one.

Lee and I both still had work to do to get the venue ready and we headed straight over.  Kat, Kyrston, and Stacy all worked on Kat’s makeup and hair in the morning, but Kat was generous enough to let me skip that and get straight to work.  I know that probably sounds strange as the before wedding beauty ritual is usually a big moment for the mom, but those who know me understand I rarely wear makeup, my hair is as easy to style as possible, and I really wouldn’t have had much to contribute in this area.  So thankfully my oldest daughter stepped in and they all (including my mom) had a wonderful hour of girl time.

Kyrston fixing Katy's hair

Kyrston fixing Katy’s hair

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I was re checking the venue site and making my list of needed items.  Thankfully, my sister, brother, and dad were all at the Hastings Farmer’s market and were kind enough to do a last-minute Walmart run. One the big items I knew we needed was more bug spray.  The ceremony site was very buggy the day before so I had Wendy buy me four double packs of Cutter Backyard Bug Control  outdoor foggers. I give this product my highest recommendation.  At Lee’s urging we waited until right before the guests were seated and we sprayed the ground, the willow branches, darn near everything, and it totally worked.  I asked several people later in the day if they had any bug issues and everyone said no.  $40 was a small price to pay for a bug free ceremony!!

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The flowers had come in before we got there at 8:30am and this is where I made my first mistake.  Oh yes, I made several throughout the day! The kids decided to do something different with their bridal party and Kat had two girls and a guy (our youngest daughter Kay was unable to attend because she could not get time off from the Air Force and Kat chose to leave the spot open) and Micah had two guys and two girls.  So when four bouquets came in I made a quick look to make sure one was slightly bigger and that was the end of that.  Apparently I can’t count, because later in the day (unfortunately too late to do anything about it) it was discovered by the bridal party that we were missing a bouquet.  I thought three in my head, but there were actually four girls, two on Micah’s side and two on Kat’s.  I have to say though that these moments are what make me so proud of my exceptional daughter.  When she heard we were missing a bouquet, she immediately said “I didn’t want one anyway because you are both walking me down the aisle” and she gave her bouquet to one of the girls.  Jamie, one of the groom’s attendants, also immediately said she was carrying a book for the reading and didn’t need one.  This kind of mistake could have caused full-blown drama with the wrong group of women, but thankfully it was easily resolved.  I did feel bad though, so if you ever do this, please do yourself a favor and stop and actually count the flowers, corsages, and boutonnieres.  You’ll thank yourself later.

Next my helpers arrived with Jeremy and we started touching up the tables from yesterday.  Moss looks pretty cool but it is god awful messy, so we were doing a lot of blowing the little pieces back to the center to avoid smudges on the white tablecloths.  Also, one of the farm’s kittens jumped up on the head table and pulled down some moss right in front of me.  I love kittens, but after all my work I thought my head might explode and the kittens thankfully were put away for the rest of the day. Then we had to put all the flowers out, which we held off as long as we could so they would hold up in the heat, which they did.  Kat had selected a florist who works with all wildflowers and the effect with the moss was really cool.  Ivy and Jylissa our helpers were critical at this stage because it was many trips up and down the stairs bringing out the vases they had put together the day before.  Around this time Kat and Micah arrived at the venue and I should probably take a moment to show you the schedule.  We spent a lot of time as a foursome working out these details and it was based on some very specific ideas the kids had.  Kat wanted to do a “First Look” at the dress with just her, Micah, and the photographer and then she would walk around the rest of the day prior to the 5pm ceremony.  We were a little concerned it would water down the ceremony itself but it was actually fantastic and allowed us to space pictures throughout the day.  I highly recommend it.

11:00 Tracy, Lee, and Stacy help Kat get into dress (we ate quickly during this).  Linda and Jim with Micah.

12:00 “First Look” Kat and Micah, then bride and groom pictures, then bride and groom and parent pictures.

1:30 Rest of bridal party arrives; bridal party pictures

3:00 Extended family arrives – more pictures

4:00 Venue open to all guests

4:45 Shuttle bus from hotel arrives

5:00 Guests seated

5:15 Ceremony

Scheduling things out to this level might seem like overkill, but have you ever been to a wedding where the cake isn’t cut until 9pm??  This is how you avoid that happening.  By the way, putting the dress and veil on a daughter is one of the most special moments for both of us and this did not disappoint.  The venue had a beautiful room for us to use and that one on one time with your daughter before things get crazy is very special.

Bridal room

Bridal room

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Bridal room

 

Because Lee is her dad Katy got movie lights for her makeup retouch

Because Lee is her dad Katy got movie lights for her makeup retouch

In our family we use Gaffe tape for everything!!

In our family we use Gaff tape for everything including stickie bras that don’t stick  well!

 

Putting on the veil was so special

Putting on the veil was so special

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

While Kat and Micah were getting their pictures taken, Lee and I got dressed, then got our pictures, then we were back to work talking to the caterers, bartenders, organizing the snack table, finalizing video camera placement, etc.  This time period is where Jeremy and Wendy were absolutely invaluable.  It’s hard to be in five places at once, and everywhere I wasn’t, either he or my sister were. Plus, Jeremy and Kyrston found the time to work out Skyping with my youngest daughter Kay,  and Jeremy carried her around via his phone during the ceremony and after for over an hour.  One of my favorite moments of the day was walking my daughter down the aisle and seeing Kay’s face on the phone as we walked past Jeremy. The three of us actually stopped the processional and said a quick “Hi” to her, and it was so special.  I was sad she couldn’t be there in person, but Jeremy’s kindness helped make her a part of the day.

Before the ceremony, Kat, Lee, and I did have some more one-on-one time as she made final preparations and then it was time to join the bridal party.  We walked up a small hill behind the tree and then Lee let the couples go one at a time carefully controlling the timing.  I was in the back when I realized I had forgotten the hand fasting ribbon which was to be used by myself and Micah’s mom Linda to tie their hands together during the ceremony.  The ribbon was about as far away as it could be (too far to run back without stopping the music) and I really started to panic.  Kat, again, wonderful in those critical moments all day, just laughed and said she felt calmer because I had made a mistake and then suggested we use the ribbon from my dress.  Thank God I had one, and we untied it and the ceremony went off without a hitch,  It really was a fun and unique ceremony as the kids had a very clear vision of what they wanted it to be and I was so happy to be a part of it.

Linda, Kat, Micah, and I during the handfasting ceremony

Linda, Kat, Micah, and I during the handfasting ceremony

 

 

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The rest of the night was dinner, speeches (which were awesome), the father/daughter dance and mother/son dance, and cake cutting, then the first shuttle arrived, most of the older folks and young kids left, and the twenty somethings really cut loose on the dance floor.  Everyone seemed to have a really a good time and although being the Mother of the bride can be exhausting it was all worth it when Micah told me it was a “perfect day.”  That meant the world to me and made me cry.  He’s a very nice young man and we feel very blessed to have him in our family. I think this picture says it all.

 

The happy couple

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The next morning my family and Kat and Micah met for breakfast as my brother and dad were headed to the airport.  Then Kat, Micah, Kyrston, Jeremy, my mom, Wendy, Lee’s mom and dad and his Aunt Dorothy all came over to the camper.  Thank heavens Dede and Denny stopped and bought lunch for everyone because I don’t think I had it in me to cook.  We sat and talked and watched the kids open some of their presents and had a really great time although after the last person left I fell into bed at 8pm and slept like the dead until 6am. It was a wonderful, wonderful week and I am so happy we got to be a part of it.

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On a side note, I did want to mention  that Dede and Denny actually bought us some presents and brought them over on Sunday (everything does at least two things) and when they left DeDe put a beautiful card in the bathroom sink where we would find it at the end of the night.  Her note read: “Never lose sight of the fact that it is never about a destination – life is always about the journey! I hope that your journey is always fun and full of adventure! Even the bumps of the road are part of the journey.  Enjoy them all. Here’s to a beautiful ride.  Love, Mom and Denny.”  She is such a special woman and Denny is an amazing man.  They have been so very very supportive of this lifestyle from the very beginning and the thoughtfulness they put into both their gifts and that card still makes me tear up thinking about it.  We love you both and I know you are reading this because you always read our blog!  So, it’s back to our adventure now and in some respects we feel like we are truly getting started.  The last eight months has been largely about family, friends,  and Lee going to RV Tech school, but now we are headed for the wide open spaces and will be really seeing if this lifestyle is sustainable for us.  Stay tuned, because although it may be bumpy at times, I can promise you it will be an interesting ride!

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First Time Rv’ing in Minneapolis.

Before starting this journal entry I wanted to thank everyone who read and commented on the First Time Wallydocking post.  My friend Gene wrote a very thoughtful response (he is a big fan of Wallydocking) and in the interest of providing people with a balanced view I thought I would share it here.  So thanks Gene, for taking the time to write this and I absolutely recommend everyone try it for themselves at least once before making a final decision.

“Just like Steve & Debbie we’re big fans of Wallydocking. We also get there late afternoon or early evening. When we run the generator in our motor home it costs us about a gallon of gas an hour. If we know we need A/C we’ll pass on Walmart and look for a campground and get a site with just electric. We’ve stayed in some Walmarts with trucks that ran their engines all night, but it wasn’t a big problem. We’ve learned to park at the outer edge of the parking lot and put out the bedroom slide over a grassy area away from traffic. If we put our jacks down we always put wood under them so we don’t mark the asphalt. Never felt unsafe. We almost always spend money at Walmart, but it’s usually for groceries which we would need to buy anyway. Overnight campgrounds are close to a highway and you can hear traffic and trains all night long. When you’re on the move you don’t want to spend a lot of time or money staying in a campground that you’ll be leaving first thing in the morning. Eileen and I have stayed at many Walmarts that have been clean, quiet and secure.”

We finally arrived in Minneapolis, pretty travel weary, and were happy to settle in for two weeks.  We are staying at Lebanon Hills Regional Campground.   The campsites here around Minneapolis are largely county parks and many have a one week maximum.  Since we are here for our daughter’s wedding we really wanted something that had a longer time frame available along with full hookups.  In retrospect I would have probably made a different choice since it is $32 a night to stay here, but the decision was made several months ago before we had solar and weren’t comfortable having less hookups.  I wouldn’t mind the cost if the campground was top-notch, but I have to say I am disappointed.  The park has extensive trails and waterways but they are all separate (many across the street) from the campground.   The campground itself has some deep spaces but the sites are in close proximity to each other with no separation (ie: trees, brush etc.)   My main complaint though is the staff.  Every interaction has been slightly unpleasant and there is one gentleman in particular who has been pretty aggressive with enforcing the “rules.” First he made Lee take down our small sign stating we had a RV Tech business claiming a local  city ordinance against it.  Then on Sunday afternoon he came to our site, asking why we hadn’t left yet since check out time was 11am.  When Lee stated we were here for two weeks, he said no you are not site 8 is checking out today.  It’s worth mentioning that as he was speaking he was standing next to the marker showing we were in site 7.   When we tried to buy wood at the camp store we were told they could only take cash between 8am -10am, and they take no other forms of payment.  (Obviously they have had some sort of issue).  They did give us wood and a slip so we could pay in the morning.  The larger issue with the wood is it’s $5 per very small bundle here and a $1,000 fine if you bring in outside wood, which they strictly enforce.   Lee asked where he could buy wood in bulk since we would be staying here for 2 weeks and received no recommendations,  other than to look online,  for a certified vendor.   As a side note it took Lee several hours and a 40 minute drive to find a certified vendor but at least the wood was certified and very, very inexpensive. So overall, I am not thrilled,  but since it’s more about my daughter and less about where we sleep, it will serve it’s purpose. 

Speaking of my daughter, her fiance Micah and she came to see us the evening we arrived and after catching up a bit we got down to work planning the wedding.  Let me say upfront that I am not going to share everything regarding this wedding.  It is Kat and Micah’s life and they have the right to some privacy.  I will be sharing the good moments of course, but as with all weddings I am sure there will be some craziness and  we will largely keep  those stories to ourselves…unless they are funny…then we will share them. Kat has done a solid job planning the wedding but there are still lots of details to be worked out so Lee and I jumped right in.  I have a project management background and Lee has tons of experience with live events so we bring that to the party.  But we are also in an area we aren’t familiar with and don’t have our contacts and resources to help as we did at Kyrston’s wedding.  Luckily Jim and Linda (Micah’s parents) are awesome people and they grew up here.  We decided to all meet at the venue at 5pm and I was really excited to see them again.  We stayed with them on their farm in our travel trailer almost two years ago and that experience is what really got us thinking about this as a lifestyle.  I will be forever grateful to them for that week and am thrilled to be working with them on the wedding.

But that was Sunday and first we had some free time on Saturday (Katy and Micah had another wedding they were attending) so we decided to visit the Caponi Art Park which was right around the corner from us.  We both like sculptures and the combination of grounds and sculptures is the best I have ever seen.  Caponi is a local artist who taught himself to carve stone.  The grounds surrounding his house  were turned into a free park for the public (donations accepted) and you can walk the grounds and see the meld of sculpture with nature.  At 89 he is still creative director of the nonprofit he helped create.  It was really lovely and all the sculptures can be touched which I found particularly appealing.   There are over 30 sculptures strategically placed throughout the grounds and here are a few pictures of my favorites.

The artists house made primarily from the materials on the property

The artists house made primarily from the materials on the property

Very cool balustrade

Very cool balustrade


I loved the snake

I loved the snake

Lee liked this sculpture about war

Lee liked this sculpture about war.  The red inside the helmets represents death and since the artist served in WWII (assigned as a driver/interpreter to the actual unit portrayed in the movie  Monuments  Men) we found it particularly impactful

 

 

This sculpture was stolen, held for ransom, thrown over a cliff, and ultimately returned to the artist

This sculpture was stolen, held for ransom, thrown over a cliff, and ultimately returned to the artist

Probably my favorite which shows the progression of man from walking upright to Einstein's Theory

Probably my favorite which shows the progression of man from walking upright to Einstein’s Theory of Relativity

 

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Lee was having a good time

Lee was having a good time

Another of Lee's favorites called The Crows

Another of Lee’s favorites called The Crows

 

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Sunday evening we drove to the venue, cleverly named Jean Acres after the owners.  Katy and Micah really liked the facility because it is very new to the wedding business and they allow the couple to have a ton of freedom in how they choose to use the property.  While this is a huge benefit it also caused some challenges as we had to figure out many things that more experienced venues have templates for (ie: where to put the table and chairs and where to hold the ceremony.)  Still, it’s worth the extra effort as the barn and grounds are unique and beautiful.  We were there for 3 hours trying to work out some of the details, but Jim and Linda were with us and they are nice people to try to figure this all out with.  Next week more wedding details to handle and hopefully we will get out a little and do something fun next weekend.

 

Katy and Micah talking to the owner James Jean (not making that up) in the barn.

Katy and Micah talking to the owner James Jean (not making that up) in the barn.

The upper level of the barn where dinner and dancing will be

The upper level of the barn where dinner and dancing will be

The downstairs stalls was converted into an awesome bar and party area

The downstairs stalls was converted into an awesome bar and party area

 

All the grounds around the house are available for use

All the grounds around the house are available for use

 

Jim, Linda, Lee, Micah, and Kat working out some details

Jim, Linda, Lee, Micah, and Kat working out some details

I love love this view

I love love this view

A potential wedding ceremony spot

A potential wedding ceremony spot

More beautiful views

More beautiful views

 

Oh one last thing I wanted to mention.  An RV pulled into the campground with this signage on it.  Have to say I love when people deck out their rigs for their businesses ever since we saw the Circus Cats bus in Orlando. They have a website called Go Pet Friendly that specializes in all things pet friendly when traveling.  Locations, travel tips, etiquette rules and a blog.  Seemed pretty cool so thought I would pass it along. I do think it is ironic that the camp host made Lee take down his tiny little RV Repair sign but this is ok lol, but more power to them and ultimately Lee picked up a job just from the signs we have on our truck which they didn’t say anything about. 

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Campground Reviews

Lebanon Hills Regional Campground   12100 Johnny Cake Ridge Road, Apple Valley  2 out of 5 pine cones

The campsites here around Minneapolis are largely county parks and many have a one week maximum.  This campground has a two week maximum with full hookups which is largely why we chose it.   It costs $32 a night to stay here, and has decent WiFi in the West Loop.    The park has extensive trails and waterways but most are all separate (across a busy street) from the campground.   The campground itself has some deep spaces but the sites are in close proximity to each other with little separation (ie: trees, brush etc.)   My main complaint though is the staff.  Every interaction has been slightly unpleasant and there is one gentleman in particular who has been pretty aggressive with enforcing the “rules.”  The worst incident was on our first Sunday he came up to our site and asked  why we hadn’t left yet since check out time was 11am.  When we stated  we were here for two weeks, he said no you are not… site 8 is checking out today.  It’s worth mentioning that as he was speaking he was standing next to the marker showing we were in site 7.  Wood is  $5 a bundle and there is a $1,000 fine if you bring in non certified  wood, which they strictly enforce.   When we asked where a certified vendor was so that we could buy in bulk we were told to look online.  It’s been a long time since we have been treated this rudely at a campsite and I would not return.   

RV Recipes

Wannabee Big Don Sub 

I am originally from Columbus, Ohio and I absolutely adore Donato’s Big Don Italian subs.  When I am in town they are the first thing that I eat, I’ve even dreamed about them.  The taste is tough to reproduce though but this recipe gets pretty darn close.  The quantities below are for one sub and can be multiplied accordingly. Keep in mind you have to have an actual oven or propane stove  for this one as a convection oven will not work. 

  • One Marzetti’s House Italian Dressing  packet  this is the secret to this recipe and you cannot substitute.  It has to be the packet version
  • 4 slices salami
  • 4 slices ham
  • 1 large deli slice provolone cheese (cut in half)
  • Shredded lettuce shredding definitely makes a difference
  • 2 Roma tomato slices has to be Roma 
  • Banana pepper slices optional
  • One seedless sub roll
  • Pam
  1. Preheat Broiler in an RV oven there is a broiler setting.  
  2. Slice roll in half long ways
  3. Place both pieces of roll cut side down on a cookie sheet sprayed with Pam
  4. Place on bottom of RV oven under the propane flame for 2 minutes until tops are cooked slightly but not burnt
  5. On bottom pieces of roll place in order some salad dressing, salami, ham, cheese, and peppers (is using)
  6. Place bottoms back into broiler for 2-3 minutes until edges of bread are brown and cheese is bubbling.  Do not burn
  7. Place 1/4 packet of dressing on top bun then lettuce then tomato.
  8. Place sandwich halves together along with remainder of dressing in the middle.  Heat under broiler for 1 minute
  9. Slice as shown below and enjoy!!  If you do it right the taste should explode in your mouth at the first bite!

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Chinese Seafood Nest

This one was quite a bit of work and has tons of ingredients, but the taste was really great.  Pretty close to what you get in a Chinese restaurant and I had fun making it

  • Vegetable oil
  •  1 pound Chinese egg noodles
  • 1 Tablespoon sesame seed oil
  • 2 Tablespoons fish sauce 
  • 2 Tablespoons soy sauce
  • 2 Tablespoons oyster sauce
  • 2 Tablespoons corn starch
  • 2 Tablespoons sugar
  • 2 Tablespoons vegetable oil
  • 2 Cloves garlic, minced
  • 1 small yellow onion, sliced
  • 3 oz Imitation Crab Meat
  • 4 oz Shrimp, peeled and de-veined
  • 3 oz Broccoli flowers, cut chunks bite sizes
  • 3 oz snow pea pods
  • 1 small can mushrooms
  • 4 Stalks green onion,chopped
  1. Prepare all ingredients in advance; mix fish sauce, soy sauce, oyster sauce, cornstarch, and sugar in a bowl for sauce
  2. Bring water to boil in a large pot and place loosened noodles in boiling water making sure they are covered
  3. Boil for 5 minutes then rinse in a colander and drain well; once drained mix sesame seed oil into noodles
  4. Place 3 TBL vegetable oil in a small skillet and heat to bubbling.  Add half the noodles covering the full bottom of the pan in an even layer
  5. Let noodles brown for approximately 5 minutes on medium heat; do not burn
  6. Flip noodle nest and cook another 5 minutes
  7. Repeat steps 5 and 6 above for second noodle nest
  8. Heat up a large skillet or wok.
  9. When skillet is hot, add 2 tablespoon vegetable oil, add garlic and yellow onion; cook 2-3 minutes until garlic is slightly brown and onion is translucent
  10. Add shrimp stirring continuously until shrimp turns darker color pink.
  11. Add broccoli, mushrooms, and imitation crab meat stirring until broccoli is slightly tender
  12. Add snow peas; do not over cook vegetables
  13. Add sauce and green onions, stir well
  14. Remove wok from heat and place seafood mix over noodle nests on plates.

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