First Week in the RV without Lee

Lee has been working all week, leaving before light and coming home after dark, and for the first extended period I have been alone in the rig.  I say alone which is odd because I am surrounded by friends, but as a self-reliant person I do feel alone.  Everyone has been incredibly nice and have gone above and beyond to help, but it’s just not the same without my best friend to share things with.  I am not lonely exactly, or sad, but it’s just not as fun without him.  That’s strange because over the years we both traveled extensively for work and often left each other for as much as two weeks at a time, but this is different.  Around every corner there are things I want to share with my best friend and it kind of bums me out when I can’t do that.  I am walking away from this experience with a much greater appreciation for what solos do and huge respect for what my husband has quietly taken care of this last year.  While I was working my corporate job last year, Lee took care of all kinds of things and they were largely under the radar.  This week I have emptied and filled tanks (thanks so much Red for the loan of your truck hugely appreciated), done laundry at the laundromat, rolled cigarettes, changed propane tanks, and kept an eye on everything rig related.  There is a lot of work there.  I always thought Lee’s constant need to be busy was personality related, but between the chores and social activities I have been constantly on the go.  As a matter of fact I am writing this at 5am, partly for a strong cell signal, and partly because as soon as the sun comes up it’s hard to squeeze in the time.  Don’t get me wrong, I appreciate the social interactions very much, but I am surprised by how quickly a day is filled up.

And I miss the writing.  I was spending quite a bit of time on posts that I just haven’t had this week.  Which leads me to one other thing I want to talk about before jumping into the pictures.  I have gotten to meet a few readers of my blog this week and one of them said, “You have to be committed to read your blog.”  I always appreciate feedback and this particular comment really stuck with me, so I talked to Kelly and Cori about it and they didn’t disagree.  I know these posts can be a bit dense and certainly they are very long, but truly I am trying to write the blog I wish I could have read before becoming a full timer.  It’s not really a travel log, although there is certainly some of that, but hopefully a resource that people who are considering full timing can use to help them make their decision.  So the detail I provide is with an eye towards someone who knows nothing about Rving or full-timing.  For those who are experienced or really just want to know what we are up to I am sure that can be a bit tedious, but honestly that is my favorite part. There are many wonderful travel blogs out there and many folks who do it way better than me, but I hope that where this blog stands out a little bit is when I write about the emotional aspects of the lifestyle. But I get it, not everyone has 15-20 minutes to devote to one blog post, so I will try to do a better job of having the pictures and their captions tell the travel story as a stand-a-lone.  That way you can always skip the text and just look at the pictures. See what happens when Lee is away, I get all in my head about stuff and oh I am having to edit my own blog posts too this week.  He really deserves big kisses when he comes back.

Jodee and Bill (Founders of the Dreamers Class of 2015) stopped by to say hi

Jodee and Bill (Founders of the Dreamers Class of 2015) stopped by to say hi and brought yummy pastries

With their beautiful dog Tessa. Hobie had a little crush

With their beautiful dog Tessa. Hobie had a little crush

I made homemade dog biscuits (recipe below), with mixed results. Hurley and Hobie liked them, Daisy not so much

I made homemade dog biscuits (recipe below), with mixed results. Hurley and Hobie liked them, Daisy not so much.  It was fun, kind of like making Christmas cookies

Red sponsored a Dreamers Fish Fry and he fed over 26 people wonderful fish

Red sponsored a Dreamers Fish Fry and he fed over 26 people.  Steve made hush puppies

I made onion rings for the first time and it was a ton of fun

I made onion rings for the first time and it was a ton of fun.  Pam was our “runner”

Everyone really had a good tim

Everyone really had a good time

Dreamers..West coast style

Dreamers..Desert style

Hiking to the big Q

Hiking to the big Q

I loved how much plant life there was along the way

I loved how much plant life there was along the way

And an old copper mine

And an old copper mine

Pam and Deb geocahced along the way which gave me plenty of time to take pictures

Pam and Deb geocached along the way which gave me plenty of time to take pictures

They let me find it

They got me close and then let me find it

And I got my first trackable prize, so I can go to its website and log it then take it to another location

And I got my first trackable prize, so I can go to its website and log it then take it to another location

Deb and Pam reading the history and filling out the log

Deb and Pam reading the history and filling out the log

The rail was loose and steep but I did ok

The rail was loose and steep but I did ok

And we made it to the top!

And we made it to the top!

The 360 view was very cool

The 360 view was very cool

So many RV's

So many RV’s

The big tent of the RV show

The big tent of the RV show

The mine from above

The mine from above

A very old height marker which Deb told us we all had to touch as it was tradition

A very old height marker which Deb told us we all had to touch as it was tradition

At the top was this sweet kid Red who was all by himself and playing guitar and singing. Sweet guy

At the top was this sweet kid Red who was all by himself and playing guitar and singing. Sorry about the spots I have got to clean my lens again

I love how life finds a way

I love how life finds a way

Not sure what these are but they are soft and very pretty

Not sure what these are but they are soft and very pretty

Coming down we got a closer view of the big Q. You can climb that way, but I don't recommend it. Go on the back side

Coming down we got a closer view of the big Q. You can climb straight up through it, but I don’t recommend it. Go up on the back side.

Walking back to the truck we had a really hard time finding it. Almost flagged one of these guys down, but thankfully Pam had her handheld GPS and we finally found it

Walking back to the truck we had a really hard time finding it. Almost flagged one of these guys down, but thankfully Pam had her handheld GPS and we finally found it

 

So it’s been packed week and it’s only Thursday!  On Friday I am crossing the border into Mexico with Mario and Ellen, which I have never done before so that should be fun.  I also wanted to leave you with a picture of this very cool thing we keep seeing.  A guy has what looks like a dune buggy with a para-sail and he is flying through the camping area.  He gets really high and it looks like a blast, but way to scary for me.  Neat though.

YDune Buggy

 

Recipes

Doggie Treats 

  • 3 TBL peanut butter
  • 1/2 cup canola oil
  • 2 eggs
  • 3/4 cup of chicken broth (you can substitute water for vegetarian if you want)
  • 2 tsp vanilla
  • 1/2 cup cornmeal
  • 1-1/2 cups unbleached flour
  • 1-1/.2 cup whole wheat flour
  • 1/2 cup rolled oats
  1. Combine peanut butter, oil, eggs, broth, and vanilla in a bowl and whisk very well
  2. Combine dry ingredients in a second bowl and blend
  3. Pour wet ingredients into dry bowl and beat by hand or with a mixture until a dough forms
  4. Roll dough to 1/4″ thickness then cut using dog bone cookie cutters
  5. Place biscuits on greased cookie sheet and cook for 20 minutes
  6. Remove, allow to cool, and store in an airtight bag

I made homemade dog biscuits (recipe below), with mixed results. Hurley and Hobie liked them, Daisy not so much

 

 

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Always Something to do in Quartzsite

When I pictured Quartzsite I always pictured us sort of alone in the desert with lots of free time on our hands.  Well that is absolutely not the case.  My social calendar hasn’t been this full since we spent a month in the Outer Banks and there is always something to do here. So much so that my normal writing schedule is off and this blog is to get me caught up.  So here’s everything that’s been going on.

Pam likes to go to the local QIA (Quartzsite Improvement Association) for the free classes, and I thought I would give it a try.  I tried yoga for the first time(really liked it) and line dancing for the first time, wasn’t a big fan but that’s mainly because my short-term memory is terrible and I have a hard time learning all the steps.  Then Ellen, Deb, and I did some laundry and after a wonderful lunch Mario made we went on a bike ride.  The desert is right outside of town and we rode on a nice bike path a little ways.  While we were out Deb saw a geocache on her phone app and we stopped and they let me find my first one.  It was fun, sort of like a treasure hunt, and I kind of get why people are so into it.  The geocache app has a clue “Unlikely Buddies” in this case and GPS coordinates that get you within 50 feet.  The treasures cannot be buried or hidden so high you will need to climb and I did feel some excitement when we uncovered it.  The “prize” was a simple pencil eraser (Ellen replaced it with a quarter), but really the fun was in finding the treasure.

Deb and Ellen on a random bench along the bike path

Deb and Ellen on a random bench along the bike path

I love the huge cacti

I love the huge cacti

We found this mound of rocks in the desert no clue what it's for

We found this mound of rocks in the desert no clue what it’s for

It had the number 98 on it??

It had the number 98 on it??

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The unlikely buddies were a cacti and a tree intertwined

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The geocache was in the hollow of the tree in a long film canister

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My butterfly

After the experience I definitely want Lee to download the app and as Steve says it is a great way to get people out walking.  Neither Steve nor I are that fond of walking for the sake of walking, but having a goal in mind certainly makes it a lot more fun.  After the geocache we headed back towards town and Ellen found us the 1,000 year old Iron Tree.  I loved old trees and this was along a really cool path and had a nice sign underneath it explaining about the tree.  We also stopped into the combination Town Hall/Library/Government offices.  I really like libraries and this one was very nice plus as soon as you walk in the front doors you see the town meeting area.  Talk about transparency in government.  No doors or separate rooms it’s all right out in the open…I totally approve.  The government area was landscaped nicely making the most use of the plants that will grow in this area and was neat as a pin.  Again very nice.

The Great tree

The Great tree

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The town is famous because of the military tried to import camels here

The town is famous because of the military tried to import camels here

The town hall directly in front of the main doors

The town hall directly in front of the main doors

Library, pretty big for such a small town and lots of books on local geography and wildlife

Library, pretty big for such a small town and lots of books on local geography and wildlife

These were the government offices. Get your license and walk across to pay your utilitiies

These were the government offices. Get your license and walk across to pay your utilities

Then Cori and Greg, fellow 2014ers, finally arrived.  They drove up from Texas and ended up getting in early so Deb and I drove up to the front to escort them back. We paid Pam and Red’s kindness forward, by helping Cori and Greg get acclimated.  Greg owns RV Solar Solutions so we knew he would be fine on generating power, but there was still the trash and tank management to talk about.  They are in a really nice Class A that has macerating toilets, but they also use a pre-specified amount of water to flush, so black tank management is always a challenge for them.  One of the benefits of a Class A though is you can always just drive over to the dump station, so we will see how that all plays out for them as the weeks go on.  We were all really excited to see them, because even though Cori and I chat/text at least every other day I hadn’t physically seen them in a year and thankfully they arrived on Lee’s one day off this week so we all got to have a campfire and hang out together.  Then we went over to the Xcapers happy hour and got to meet Chris and Cherie from Technomadia and Travis and Melanie who have founded Xscapers.  I have been wanting to meet Chris and Cherie since we started full-timing and they were of course very nice.  I was happy to have an opportunity to thank her for her words of wisdom in the forum and on her blog and the fact that they have been an inspiration to us in becoming full timers.  Travis and Melanie were really great.  They have a 4-year-old and Melanie is pregnant with their second child and they work full-time for the Escapees organization.  They have started a sub group for those of us who are mobile workers and are working very hard to provide resources for those folks who are working on the road.  I am very excited about this because we really need resources for us working RVers and since Escapees is such a huge RVing community they should have the resources to really get things started.  Lee and I spoke to them for about 15 minutes and I was very impressed by their vision, plus they are just cool people to hang out with.  Can’t wait to see what they come up with this year. 

Steve, Deb, Cori, and Greg

Steve, Deb, Cori, and Greg.  Jim and Barb were there to but not pictured.

Lee’s schedule is pretty rough (leaving at 5am and getting home around 10pm every night) and in retrospect we really should have moved the rig to be closer to Phoenix, but I am grateful for the opportunity to do this on my own for a week.  So far it’s been fine.  I don’t know what to do with all that extra space all by myself and I am enjoying some alone time in my rig to be honest.  Everyone’s keeping an eye on me, which is sweet, but really I totally feel like I have this and the schedule is keeping me so busy I don’t even have the time to get lonely.  Steve really wanted to go to the RV Show on Saturday and even though the repeaters said it would be a mad house off we went after Steve cooked us a nice big breakfast.  It was super crowded, but not that bad as we had been told and with our BLM stickers we could park on the BLM land right next to the show. I will say I was a little disappointed in the content of the show itself, but after all the hype I am not sure anything could have lived up to my expectations.  There were a few cool things I had never seen before.  The best part for me was the Beet Harvest booth and Amazon booth because we are thinking about trying both of these to earn money in the future and it was nice to be able to talk face-to-face with a person about the positions.

The entrance to the show

The entrance to the show

Walking behind Steve helped clear a path lol

Walking behind Steve helped clear a path lol

I bought one of these for Lee

I bought one of these for Lee.  For $5 I am sure he will figure something out to do with them

We all admired the hot tubs but not very practical

We all admired the hot tubs but not very practical

Deb got some face cleanser put on

Deb got some face moisturizer put on, but she has amazing skin so doesn’t really need anything in my opinion

Nice gold cart display

Nice gold cart display

These wine glass separators are a big hit in the rC world

These wine glass separators are a big hit in the RV world

Steve bought a Flagpole buddy and we both bought these solar lights for the top which was my splurge for the show

Steve bought a Flagpole buddy and we both bought these solar lights for the top which was my splurge for the show.  We got a better deal since Steve bought a flagpole and we met the owner of Flagpole buddy who was very nice.

By two o’clock we had gone through the Big Tent and I was ready to go.  It really started to get crowded and I was tired of walking. Plus Steve promised to get me back in time for the Patriots playoff game and we all gathered at Cori and Greg’s with snacks to watch the game on their big screen TV.  The Patriots won and Lee got home a little early that night so we all sat around the campfire and chatted until about 9:30.

Deb, Barb, and Jim watching the game

Deb, Barb, and Jim watching the game

Greg and Cori

Greg and Cori

Beautiful sunset that night

Beautiful sunset that night

On Sunday, we decided to go to the  Desert Bar.  This bar is out in the middle of no where, 6 miles down a very rocky road off the highway past Parker.  You can’t go to Quartzsite though and not go at least once so Deb, Steve, Cori, Greg, and I all went.  The story is that in 1983, Ken the owner bought an old copper mine and decided to give a bar in the desert a try.  It has since grown and expanded and the place was busy when we got there at noon and even busier when we left.   We took some pictures, ate a decent but expensive lunch, and listened to the band.  It’s not something I would do regularly, but it is a very neat concept and truly is in the middle of no where. Also it’s a cash only place so bring extra, because you’ll probably want to get a T-Shirt.

The Desert bar sign

The Desert bar sign.  You really need directions because it is not easy to find

It's all solar powered and only open on the weekends when the sun is up

It’s all solar-powered and only open on the weekends when the sun is up

They built a church front and anyone can minister there

They built a church front and anyone can minister there

The side view

The side view

Cool metal sculptures

Cool metal sculptures

One of four food area. I had a $10 gyro which was good and a $5 big glass of lemonade. Pricey but filling

One of four food area. I had a $10 gyro which was good and a $5 big glass of lemonade. Pricey but filling

 

One of the things everyone talks about is the women’s restroom.  It is extremely clean, built into the side of the hill and has an open air view at the sinks onto the mountains.  Not sure how they get all that water but it was cold and honestly one of the neatest bathrooms I have ever been in.  The men’s room I guess is not so cool.

Entrance to the ladies room

Entrance to the ladies room

The wall behind the stalls was packed dirt which was cooler than the picture suggests. The dorrs are heavy iron.

The wall behind the stalls was packed dirt which was cooler than the picture suggests. The doors are metal sheets.

I loved the sinks and they looked out over the desert

I loved the sinks and they looked out over the desert

 

We snagged one of the last tables, ate some lunch, and then Deb wanted to hike up on this little hill to get a better view.  The gravel/rock is very loose, but Cori (who sprained her ankle on a hike a few weeks ago) wanted to give it a go.  So Deb, Steve, Cori, and I hiked up while Greg watched the table and our stuff.  The panoramic was very pretty and you got a good view of the owner’s house which is on the property.  It’s such an odd place to put a bar, in such an isolated place, but you can’t argue with success because the place got busier and busier as the afternoon wore on.

Greg and Steve moving our spool table

Greg and Steve moving our spool table

Deb leading the way on our small walk up

Deb leading the way on our small walk up

We made it!!

We made it!!

The original bar

The original bar

Today's compound

Today’s compound

The road coming in

The road coming in.  Takes forever to go 6 miles

Steve striking a pose for me

Steve striking a pose for me

A man and his Coors!!

A man and his Coors!!

After the short hike we talked a bit more than I bought a long-sleeve T-Shirt for $26 and left.  They had a nice selection of shirts and I really wanted something to prove I had been there.  Plus I had exactly $26 left in my purse so it was meant to be.  One the way out we saw some folks dancing and they were having a great time, but we were all ready to go.  We stopped at Wal-Mart in Parker, which is very nice, and picked up a few things then got back to the rig by 4pm.  We were all pretty pooped at that point, so I uploaded pictures, watched the end of the Broncos game and went to Cori and Greg’s for steak dinner which was very sweet of them.  Tomorrow going back to the show with Cori and Greg and then another busy week up ahead.  Several RV-Dreams are stopping by this week and I will definitely need to do another round of tank emptying and refilling, plus I promised Deb some hikes and I really want to take more pictures.  Whew this being a lady of leisure is exhausting!!!

Loved the old trucks in the surronding area

Loved the old trucks in the surrounding area

Had to get my picture taken in this one

Had to get my picture taken in this one

Steve and Greg peer pressured me into licking the truck

Steve and Greg peer pressured me into licking the truck

My sexy car modeling lol

My sexy car modeling lol

 

Beautiful views

Beautiful views

 

 

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