Returning to Singer Island

When I was a little girl we didn’t have much in the way of money, but I did have grandparents who lived in Florida and almost every year my parents found a way for us to take a trip and go stay on Singer Island. My first trip (and airplane ride) was when I was three years old and even though I don’t remember much of that trip, my memories are full of experiences from many others.

From Left Great-Grandpa Larry, Great Grandma Alice, Grandpa Charlie, Grandma Pat

Take the above picture for example. I have a hard copy picture of the same statue I took when I was about 8 and another hard copy with friends when I went on Spring Break in high school. I was super excited to take another picture at 57 because this place and this statue have deep roots and memories for me.

My Mom has always talked about moving there and I was very excited for her when she bought a condo in the exact same condo complex that my grandparents and great-grandparents lived. What’s even greater is that very little has changed. Although this small 3 story building is now surrounded by high rises, the condo complex is mainly owned by generations of families and they have consistently refused to sell. Driving in I was flooded with memories and it was truly really special.

My Mom is actually on the second floor in a one bedroom and it is really nice. I got to tour several of the condos while there and I liked Mom’s the best. The one bedrooms are 680 square feet but that doesn’t include the Lanai. Some people use there’s for storage, but Mom like my grandparents use it as extended living space and I always slept on the lanai as a kid. Not all of the condos have a view of the ocean (Mom has a bit of one) but the real draw is how close you are to the ocean. There is a lovely pool (where I learned to dive as a kid) and then a short walk to a private entrance and you are on the beach. And what a beach it is. It doesn’t have the white sands of the gulf, but I loved the Atlantic ocean waves and walking on that send took me back in an instant.

As I said its surrounded by tons of high rises including a Ritz Carlton residences and multiple Marriott vacation villas but the Villas really stands out or doesn’t because from the beach you can just barely see the top floor. The last time I visited was on a work trip after the 2009 hurricanes and although many of the high rises were wrecks the Villas hung on.

The purpose of the trip was to see my Mom but also find out if I could work remotely and get out of LA for awhile. Thankfully that worked really well so I spent the weekdays working and the evenings going out and seeing things. When Mom asked me what I wanted to do I actually said I just want to see the town as it is today. We went to numerous thrift stores at my request and ate out at few restaurants. But mainly it was just hanging out and walking on the beach or swimming in the pool which was totally fine with me!

One new things we saw was the Manatee Lagoon which is right down the road from Mom. This wasn’t here when I was a kid and even though we didn’t see any manatees it was still fun. I didn’t realize manatees were on the east coast as well, and will need to come back in winter when they are more likely to be in the warmer waters near the electrical plant.

I think Mom’s favorite day was when we celebrated Mother’s Day early and I treated her to dinner at Carmine’s Gourmet Market which is a local favorite restaurant and specialty Italian market. Dinner was good but the market is really someting special and I can’t believe how much they have in such a relatively small space. Amazing and if you are ever there I highly recommend the market at least.

My favorite thing though was totally random. We were driving to the Manatee Lagoon and I saw a building that looked familiar. I asked Mom to stop and we walked into a wonderland of shells. This building has been in existence since “forever” according to the current owner and I have strong memories of going there as a child and looking at all the shells. This time I was extra excited because I have been looking for shells to make patterns in my pottery and they had bins and bins all for 25 cents to $2. Amazing !!!

Next up I’ll share my one day off where we went to see Mar-a-lago and Palm Beach!

We very much appreciate your support of our blog.

  • You can purchase the ebook telling the story of how we became full-time RVers.
  • You can purchase our recipe book filled with 80 recipes we have cooked in our RV and taste tested by Lee himself. You can purchase the kindle or paperback version on Amazon or buy the Apple version on Itunes

First Time in a Winter Coat since going on the Road

I skipped last Sunday in the post before last because it was already really long and I wanted to give it justice, so I am going to start there and work my way forward through the week.  As you know, Lee has been attending RV Tech School for the last 8 weeks and although I haven’t posted much about it (will do a nice long write-up when he’s done) it has been a major part of our lives. One of the best things about the school is some of the people he has met and we had an opportunity to have dinner with one of the couples last Sunday.  Fernando (Nando for short) and Jen  have a really interesting life and prove there are all kinds of full timers out there.  Jen, if I get any of the details wrong please forgive me…it’s been over a week and my memory is not what it used to be.

Jen and Nando have been together for over 15 years and are raising three boys (ages 13, 12, and 9) in a converted bus (38 foot 1994 Monaco Dynasty…with no slide outs), which means: not a ton of space for 5 people.   Jen (like myself) works remotely from the rig and also oversees the boys curriculum as they are home schooled.  Many years ago when they were younger they liked going to folk music festivals and Nando  noticed that the food being offered lacked any ethnicity at all.  So largely on a whim initially they started providing Mexican food at some of the festivals.  Over time they developed some repeat customers and have used it as many years to supplement the income they made from their “regular jobs.”  Fast forward and they realize they could make a living from just the festivals so they flew to Florida and bought a bus.  This is where the story gets really interesting.   Jen does not like to plan too far in advance.  This is a lifestyle choice, not caused by any sort of laziness (Jen works her butt off to make this lifestyle work for her family) but because of how she wants to live.  So, you know me, the uber planner…the thought of no plan makes me break into hives (not really but you know what I mean). but as we were talking I opened my mind to the concept.  Which was easy because Jen and Nando are obviously very good parents  (I know this because they frequently say “those damn kids…” with a smile on their face which only supremely confident parents have the guts to say ) so  I opened my mind to what they are doing  and it’s easy to tell they are totally making this work. They want a non-conventional life and they want their children to have the same and although that was not our choice I say more power to them.  They sold their house and flew down and moved the three kids into a used bus in Florida.  Which promptly broke down in Georgia. They got it fixed and made it to Nashville where it broke down again.  At this point they had to stop and wait three weeks for the correct parts and eventually Nando fixed the bus himself.  I asked if he had any experience with fixing this type of engine and he did not, but he’s a really smart guy and mechanically inclined so he figured it out. During this time period they also needed to be at a festival and there was some flying back and forth to make that happen.  I would say in general that sums up Nando and Jen.  They take life as it comes and do what it takes to make things happen.  I admire that tremendously and frankly wish I was more like them.

Like us Nando and Jen discovered the RV Training Center school and since they are all about multiple streams of income (which is very smart in this life) took a 10 week break from the bus, rented a small house, and came down here for the school.  I met Jen at the luncheon the school had for families a few weeks ago and immediately felt a connection to her, so when Nando asked us to go out with them for her birthday I couldn’t say no.  Yes I knew we would go over budget on dining out, and was pretty pooped from a busy couple of weeks, but I really wanted to get to know them better and I am so glad that we did.  They purchased family passes to the Clearwater Marine Aquarium  and had free friends passes and asked us if we wanted to start the day there.  I had been wanting to go, plus can’t pass up free, so we met there around 12:30.  Jen won’t take her boys to traditional zoos only places where animals are kept for rehabilitation and research so this place is right up her alley.  I loved it because along with Winter (the dolphin with the mechanical fin from Dolphin’s Tale) they help many sea turtles.  Right when we walked in the door, we saw they were operating on a rescued sea turtle, and seeing my interest, one of the volunteers took us on a back hallway tour and spent 20 minutes or so explaining the facility and what they do.  It turns out they get no royalties from the movie because they are a non-profit and operate on donations, admission fees, and over 400 volunteers.  This may seem like plenty but according to the volunteer the previous weekend they responded to 18 calls for turtles in distress (10 were brought back and 8 died on scene) ranging from turtles cut by fishing line, tumors, and even one in a trash can.  The volunteer was very passionate about what they do and I really appreciated her taking the time to show us the behind the scenes.  My favorite story was of a female sea turtle who was picked up initially 5 years ago.  She was helped and released back into the wild.  A year later she was found on the same beach and sent back for another issue.  Two years later same thing and then just 6 months ago.  Turtles are smart.  It was like she was checking into the emergency room 🙂 

Lee got this great shot of the turtle operation through the glass

Lee got this great shot of the turtle operation through the glass

Rehabilitating turtle in its habitat

Rehabilitating turtle in its habitat

Y037

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Winter part of the aquarium was less interesting to me.  They have Winter blocked so it’s tough to get a good picture unless you pay extra which was disappointing.  I understand the money is going to a good cause, but I hate that commercial feeling, but the sea otter area was a nice treat and we got to see the staff working with the animals preparing training them for release which was cool. Overall I am glad I didn’t have to spend $22 each to go, but I am really glad we got to see it and Nando and Jen were great to hang out with.

Winter..you have to pay extra for a good picture

Winter..you have to pay extra for a good picture

Here's her tale without the mechanical piece

Here’s her tale without the mechanical piece

Sea otters being trained

Sea otters being trained

Look at that face

Look at that face

Y092

African Pelican from the movie live here permanently now

African Pelican from the movie live here permanently now

Nando and Jen

Nando and Jen

 

Nando and Winter

Nando and Winter

 

Me and Winter

Me and Winter

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

After the aquarium we tried to go to a beach restaurant in Clearwater, but because it was a really nice day the place was packed.  I really don’t like Clearwater beaches, they are packed with tourists and driving/parking is a nightmare.  I much prefer driving down the coast a bit and going to the lesser known beaches which are essentially the same but with less crowds.  We didn’t have a back up plan, so we starting driving down the coast and eventually came to a waterfront (marina side) restaurant called The Pub Waterfront Restaurant.  What a find!!  I had the absolute best meal I have had since we got here…Bay shrimp, the best spinach and cheese dip I’ve ever had, and some yummy ice tea.  It was $50 all in with tip (damn those drinks and appetizers) but it was really, really good.  They offer reasonably priced meals before 6pm, btw, and if you’re in the area I highly recommend it. We ate and had plenty of time to drive down to Indian Rocks beach and watch the sunset. So we blew the budget but made some really good new friends…I would say that’s a fair trade 🙂 

I took the next couple of days for work and readied myself for my first work trip up north.  Because of the storms two trips have been cancelled, but on Wednesday (the very best day to fly) I flew from Tampa to Atlanta to Louisville with no issue.  The first day wasn’t that bad.  The sun was shining and it was cold but not windy.  The second day however I remembered why I am done with winter.  Overcast, spitting snow, and the wind had a nasty bite…really not cool.  The meeting was great, the people were nice as always, but I discovered I don’t miss the snow AT ALL.  No nostalgia, no nothing, just a desire to get back to the warmer weather lol.  I flew back on Friday and I would like to take a moment to complain a bit.  First they have banned e-cigarettes in the Louisville airport which is absolutely ridiculous.  Non smokers want smokers to stop and the e cigarettes are having an impact on that.  So why ban them??  Mine smells like Berries btw, and it contains absolutely nothing harmful in it for anyone.  Also, they took my toothpaste, which makes me crazy.  The same toothpaste can pass security multiple times and then one bored TSA agent will snag it.  Seriously, they need some consistent rules in these airports.  Anyway the flight itself was fine and it was an easy switch of planes in Detroit.  Then it gets interesting.  There was a woman who was sloppy drunk in the seat behind me and the first thing she said as she sat down was “how quickly can I get another drink?”.  I am sympathetic to folks who are nervous flyers, but drinking too much and then asking for more is just stupid.  Turns out she was in the wrong aisle (misread her ticket, big shock) and she was in the middle seat next to me.   So she sat down and could not get the seat belt to secure around her.  I am sympathetic to people who are larger, but no way was I OK with a drunk person being unsecured in the seat next to me.  I very kindly mentioned we could get her an extender and we wanted her to be safe and she immediately got tense about it.  I stood up and walked back to the attendant and asked for a seatbelt extender.  She immediately said, “Did she ask for one?”  I said no but it wasn’t safe and the airline attendant said , “We have to be very careful how we handle situations like this.”  So let me get this straight you can take my toothpaste, you can ban e cigarettes, but someone can not wear a seatbelt because they might get offended??? Ever seen the scene in the TV show Lost where the plane hits turbulence and the non seat belted passengers go flying up in the air and strike the people around them??  All I could picture was getting smashed flat in a turbulence situation.  Just to be clear I would have had an identical reaction no matter what her size.  So I went back to my seat and was pondering my next move when the lady literally climbed over me (without me getting up) and took a seat two rows back.  Well that worked OK, and although I rarely talk to people I am flying with Jennifer my aisle companion and I spoke quietly for a few minutes.  Turns out Jennifer was a really cool person and I actually ended up sharing my blog with her by the end of the flight.  So Jen if you read this, I enjoyed talking to you very much.

Mom is in town checking on Grandpa and I knew I was going to drive over and see them.  I made the colossally bad decision however to drive straight from the airport to North Palm Beach. I was hoping I would cut my drive time down but because I hit Friday rush hour traffic it actually took longer.  So I flew all day and then drove for 4 hours to get there.  Not fun.  I did enjoy hanging out with them, Grandpa is doing very well considering his loss and Mom and I had a good time visiting the beach that I spent quite a bit of my childhood on.  My grandparents lived on Singer Island when I was young and we spent many summers at their condo right on the beach.  So we went to a local park and walked down to the old condo and I enjoyed seeing a different ocean.  I did NOT like the jelly fish however which were everywhere, but the waves are much bigger and wilder and the beach sand although not white was much deeper.  We had a nice walk and then got pedicures (mom’s treat) and then took Grandpa to Chinese for lunch.  It was pretty overcast throughout the day so I decided to drive back a little earlier and about 15 minutes into the drive it started to pour.  Very poor visibility…people had their flashers on…and it took me another 4 hours to make it back to Largo.  So I love my Mom and Grandpa but the drive both was pretty awful, and I am spending Sunday just relaxing until I fly out again on Monday to Albany, NY. Time to pull out the winter coat again.

Tiny free park on nice beachfront property

Tiny free park on nice beachfront property

Walkway to beach

Walkway to beach

The waves are so much higher and I used to walk on those rocks in low ride as a kid

The waves are so much higher and I used to walk on those rocks in low ride as a kid

The tiny three story building in the middle is the condo complex my grandparents lived in

The tiny three-story building (in the middle of the picture) is the condo complex my grandparents lived in

 

 

The condo I spent my summers as a kid in

The condo I spent my summers as a kid in

027

 

Grandpa and Mom

Grandpa and Mom

 

————————————————————————————————————————————-

Camper Chronicles is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to amazon.com.  Search Amazon.com here