First Time at a Reunion Rally – Part 2

Wednesday was another work day for me and it was a long one since I was preparing to take off Thursday and Friday. The campground was really quiet though because most people either went to see the Biltmore estate near Asheville or took drives on the Blue Ridge Parkway. It is a beautiful place for a drive.  Since Lee and I were here in November we don’t feel like we are missing too much staying close to the campground, but we are both looking forward to a few days off so we can do come activities in the area.  Well, I am looking forward to a few days off.  Lee’s schedule is getting pretty full. He volunteered to put together a video for Howard and Linda from Monday’s game day  and when he went to load the editing software he has used for many many years, he realized he would need to download the newest edition to make it work on this computer.  As you all know, software upgrades are a pain, so something that would normally only take him a few hours has stretched into many.  He’s having fun with it though.  He hasn’t edited video since we started full timing 6 months ago and I know he has missed it. Watching Lee edit video is like watching a musician compose music. He’s intensely focused and will spend hours on a few seconds of the video just like a musician will spend hours on a few notes of a song.

Lee’s also working on video interviews and testimonials of couples who have had solar installs done by Greg and Cori of RV Solar Solutions. Lee offered to help them weeks ago but since we were having such a good time in OBX those interviews kept getting pushed.  Now with only a few days left together, they need to get done, plus there are some people here at the rally that Greg did solar installs for and Lee is getting those interviews as well. He’s also working as an RV Tech,  completing a window replacement and fixing a leaking air conditioner this week as well as talking to many others about issues they have been having on their RV’s.  Initially we didn’t think Lee would work this week, since the Tom Johnson Campground sits next to their service center and they have obviously prefer all work repairs to come to them, but they are booked out three weeks, so many people here who have had problems they have been living with for several months are talking to Lee about how to resolve them.  In some cases he talked them through a Do It Yourself solution, or recommended they wait until they are near their home base to take care of the issue, but when he could this week he went ahead and fixed the problem for them.  We’ve spent a lot of time over the last couple of weeks talking about how this business will work for us on the road, and although we never want to turn down work, Lee has realized that sometimes a job can be too complex to handle in the time we have left before we leave for our next destination.  But even in these cases he can give people advice on how we would handle, or in some cases, provide a temporary fix for the problem. It’s good to see him so busy though and simultaneously juggling work using his varied skill set.  Our plan has always been to make money using multiple revenue streams, but in my head I guess I thought Lee would be focusing on one thing at a time.  It’s great to realize that in the right set of circumstances he can be an RV Tech and a Videographer.

Wednesday was a full work day for both of us and after catered dinner with the RV-Dreams group I tried to go to bed early.  The only activity I signed up for was a full day whitewater rafting trip.  The day started very early, so I knew I was getting up at 5am…not a huge deal for me since I am an early riser by nature, but there were many groans from the folks who like to sleep in a bit.  I was so excited I didn’t sleep much and was more than ready to go when the our group of 13 took of in the morning.  The drive to High Mountain Expeditions  took longer than I expected, but it was a beautiful drive high up into the mountains.  

Everyone ready to go!!

Everyone ready to go!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

They sold us T Shirts for $15 because we had to wait awhileto leave and I got this one which I love

They sold us T Shirts for $15 because we had to wait awhile to leave and I got this one which I love

Once everyone got suited up in the jackets they provided we took a ride on their converted school bus down the mountain and into Tennessee for another hour.  Since High Mountain offers equipment for both skiers in the winter and rafting in the summer it makes sense they are located on the mountain but the inefficiency of driving up just to drive back down was not lost on me.  I can’t help it. So it took a little while to get to our site and get the boats in the water, but I understood why this particular trip was scheduled for the entire day.  Everyone divided into groups with two foursomes and two threesomes.  Since I was a single, I ended up in a boat with Rick and Mike, two RV-Dreamers that I didn’t know very well.  It was Mike’s first time and my second, but Rick has white water rafted many times, and our river guide was the Jason who had ridden on the bus with us and provided our initial orientation.   Jason was outstanding!!  He is a professional musician at night and river guide by day and who moved to the area a month ago from California with his wife and two baby girls (ages 1 and 2) so they could be nearer to his wife’s parents.  There was lots of time to talk on the ride, and I love hearing people’s stories…I can’t help that either. We put on our gear and all of our helmets had names on the back.  I was one of the last to put my helmet on and ended up with Esther.  These river names do serve a purpose though, because in an emergency situation the guide will call you by the river name on the back of your helmet.  Smart way to handle it really, because in the heat of the moment you don’t want the guide forgetting someone’s name. Jason is an experienced rafter but newly qualified on this river (it takes 10 practice runs and 1 run with customers and another guide to get certified on each river), and we were his first group to take solo on the Nolichucky.

Rick, me, and Mike better know as Dude, Esther, and It.

Rick, me, and Mike better know as Dude, Esther, and It.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Jason our river guide

Jason our river guide

 

The Nolichucky River  is absolutely gorgeous and one of the big water scenes from Last of the Mohicans was filmed here.  There is quite a bit of argument about what the name means.  It is a distortion of a Cherokee word and has been interpreted to mean Spruce-Tree Place, Rushing Waters, or Black Swirling waters.  The river guides like to call it the River of Death..I think I like Spruce-Tree Place better!  We started out going through some Class 3 and Class 4 rapids and getting used to working together as a team.  I white water rafted years ago in the mountains of Honduras and I will say initially compared to that experience I was disappointed.   Rafting is different depending on the various water levels, and my prior experience was with “big water” and 7 people in the boat.  The big water here happens in March and April so the Class 3 and 4 rapids were much easier than the Class 3’s I experienced before.  But it was a beautiful day, the company was great, and there’s nothing better than floating down a river and watching the beautiful scenery.

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One interesting fact our guide shared with us is the Tennessee Valley Authority wanted to build a dam here at one point, but because the train route (shown below) was extremely important, they had to leave this area open.  As the guide put it, the train is the only reason we still have the gorge today and this gorge is one of the deepest in the country.

Train is in middle left of picture

Train is in middle left of picture

This shows how deep the gorge is

Absolutely breathtaking views

 

Things were going great and our boat was getting into a groove when it happened.  We hit a rock unexpectedly and Rick (who was sitting directly in front of me) went over the side.  It was fast and we were just entering Quarter-Mile rapids…which are a particularly long stretch of rapids.  We only had 3 people in our boat and we just missed grabbing Rick to pull him back in.  Since we were the lead boat no one panicked and Rick did exactly as he had been told in orientation and stayed calm; facing forward with his feet up in case he came upon a rock.  The second boat maneuvered over to him and as they were trying to grab him the boat tipped up and Jo fell of the back side.  I saw it clearly and there was nothing she could do it happened so fast.  The second boat guide followed protocol and stopped trying to get Rick and took care of his own boat member first.  I have to say I was extremely impressed by how professional the guides were.  Jason told us they practice swift water rescue and obviously that training paid off. Craig grabbed Jo with one very strong-arm but she was behind him and in between the boat and a large rock.  The guide told Craig to let her go and to his credit he did as asked.  It must have been very hard for him to let her go in that situation, but as a retired fireman he knew that he had to.  Jo drifted back a bit and their guide plucked her out of the water.  Jo said later it happened so fast she wasn’t really aware of what happened, but she did swallow a lot of water and saw the huge rock which was scary for her.  Unfortunately this tied up the second boat (the third and fourth were too far behind to be of assistance) and Rick was still in the water.  Jason, who had been very matter-of-fact to this point spoke to Mike and I with a greater urgency. He said, “We have to get him into this boat NOW” and maneuvered us over to a ledge where Mike and I could hold the boat still with our hands.  This was not easy to do, but I could tell by the tone of Jason’s voice we were running out of time.  Later Jason told us we were approaching another rapid that had a ledge that could be dangerous to a “swimmer” as they call someone who falls out of the boat and as we held the bouncing boat he stood and threw his rope.  During orientation he had talked us through what to do if a rope was thrown to you in the water and then added in 15 years he had never had to throw his rope.  Well apparently he tempted fate, but he stood and threw it and Rick to his credit did exactly what he was supposed to.  Things got hairy though when Rick got to our boat and for a brief moment was under it.  Rick kept his head though and put his hand up as taught and quickly resurfaced at the back of the boat.  Jason said he needed help and I came to the back, but honestly I felt incredibly helpless.  Rick is a big guy, the boat was rocking up and down, and all I could think was the worst thing I could do was fall into the water also.  Two people in the water would have been a big deal so I focused on staying in and Jason gave one big heave and got Rick half onto the boat where I could help a little getting him all the way in.  It was scary, but Jason told us later he was really proud of us because no one panicked and apparently Rick gets huge bragging rights for “swimming” the quarter-mile rapid and everyone thinks they should rename it Rick’s Run.

Picture of what the quarter mile rapid looked like

Picture of what the quarter-mile rapid looked like

Jo in the boat after "swimming" with Craig, Kelly, and Bill

Jo in the boat after “swimming” with Craig, Kelly, and Bill

 

After everyone calmed down things were largely uneventful.  We stopped at one spot because the water was low and had to hike through while our guides brought the boats around, and not that long later we stopped at a spot and had a picnic lunch. By the way I had obsessed about what to wear (cotton was not recommended because it holds water) and wore my one running suit.  IT worked beautifully for both in the  boat and the hike through the woods and I highly recommend something similar if you ever do this.  I wore my bathing suit underneath, but never was so hot I felt I need to strip down the layers.  On a side note and this may be TMI but it’s been years since I peed in the outdoors and I will say I haven’t been missing anything.  Luckily there was a large rock and Kelly stood watch for me.

Short Hike through the woods.

Short Hike through the woods.

Lunch spot

Lunch spot

The pineapple was yummy

The pineapple was yummy

Hanging with the gang

Sherry, Tracy, Pat, Tom, Pam, Bryce, Kelly, and Mike

After lunch the paddle was much easier, with only a few areas where we had to be careful because the water was low.  Towards the end there was one big rapid though and our boat was third in the line.  I guess by that point I was feeling overconfident because when I saw Howard with the camera I stopped paying attention to what I was doing and waved to my friends…yep, I flipped over backwards and was in the water.  I came up laughing though and right by the boat, and Jason was grinning as he pulled me in. Pat who saw the whole thing said it was an awesome back flip and for me it was the funnest part of the whole day.  Since it was a totally safe area at the bottom of this rapid, it was one of the best places to fall in and poor Jason was a good sport about having to fish another of his crew out of the water.  Heavens knows what he told his wife that night, but at least we all gave him nice tip!!  The guides did something really fun on that last rapid where the team paddles hard to face it and the guide holds the boat in the stream and they “surf” the wave.  Pam’s boat put her in the front middle for “ballast” and she got a huge face full of water.  It was very fun and we all loved the day. So glad I picked this excursion and got to experience it with this great group of people.

Having a great time after taking my swim

Having a great time after taking my swim

Sherry, Tom, and Bryce "surfing"

Sherry, Tom, and Bryce “surfing”

The look on Pam's face was priceless after surfing the last rapid

The look on Pam’s face was priceless after “surfing” the last rapid and being used as ballast

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thursday night when we got back from the rafting a bunch of us ordered Chinese takeout and ate it together.  I don’t think anyone wanted to cook and Lee had mentioned he hadn’t had Chinese food in the 6 months we have been on the road.  That is definitely an adult record for him and I know his friends that are reading this will be shocked.  The food was so-so but it was reasonably priced and the company was as always excellent.  We called it an early night though when the storm (pictured below) rolled in.  It was beautiful, but I was too nervous to stay outside once the lightning started.  We have surge protection for the electrical system in our rigs so I don’t worry about the lightning very much, but I am not a fan of standing outside in storms.

Picture Lee took of the storm

Picture Lee took of the storm

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Friday we went on a long-awaited hike with Nancy and Bill.  We met Nancy and Bill at the Sevierville rally and were so excited when we saw they would be attending the reunion rally.  They have been full timing for many years but really bonded with the group they attended their first RV Dreams rally with back in 2010.  It’s nice to see that those friendships still exist 4 years later and our Class of 2014 really looks up to that group.  Nancy and Bill love to hike so they organized a few trips that were free and anyone could attend. Our group really wanted to see Linville Falls  and we were really excited to get to hang out with Nancy and Bill some more.  The hike was just my speed, with moderate difficulty levels and lots of cool places to stop and get views of the falls. Nancy and Bill made sure everyone was accounted for throughout the hike, but in an unobtrusive way that didn’t make you feel rushed.  Lee and I like to hang back in group hikes and Nancy is the same, and we had a very pleasant chat with her.  She also knows quite a bit about the flowers in the area and I really enjoyed getting to know her a bit better.  She reminds me so much of my Grandmother Pat who just passed away and I really feel an affinity to her.  It was a great day and as  I will let the pictures speak for themselves. 

Nancy and Bill... I want to be them when I grow up :)

Nancy and Bill… I want to be them when I grow up 🙂


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There was a group of 16 but the trail was long and mostly wide so everyone could spread out which I liked

 

 

 

Very cool tree growing out of this rock...nature always finds a way

Very cool tree growing out of this rock…nature always finds a way

 

 

 

The trail was moderate difficulty level and you did need to watch your step as roots were growing in the path

The trail was moderate difficulty level and you did need to watch your step as roots were growing in the path

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View of the falls through the trees

 

 

 

Very top of the falls

Very top of the falls

The gang hanging out

RV-Dreamers group picture

Loved this natural rock viewing platform

Loved this natural rock viewing platform

Tim and Kim brought their dog

Tim and Kim brought their dog who had a great time

 

 

Water comes through here

Water comes through here

Then comes out the other side

Then comes out the other side

 

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Lee taking in the view

Lee taking in the view

Loved this Mountain Laurel

Loved this Mountain Laurel

This reminded me of a Hobbit House

This reminded me of a Hobbit House

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The only downside to the trip happened near the end when Don and Lee found a shirt, water bottle, and a cell phone on a small side trail off the beaten path.  Lee was looking at the cell phone when it rang and the girl’s sister called.  As soon as Lee explained why he was answering the phone her sister burst into tears.  Apparently the girl had broken up with her boyfriend and her sister was concerned.  Lee immediately took the phone to the ranger station and they called the police and Pat (a retired police officer) and Don searched the nearby trails.  There was a steep drop off near where the phone was and I am afraid everyone was thinking the worst.  Lee, Pat, and Dave had to wait for the police to arrive to tell them what they knew and the rest of the folks left because they were attending another event at 2pm.  Several of us stayed and waited while the guys gave their report and we were all hoping for the best.  Luckily the call came in that rangers had found her and they asked that we all wait until she came out of the park.  She seemed a bit bewildered there had been such a fuss because according to her that trail was rarely used, but she was grateful to have her phone back.  Lee explained we had daughters her age and were alarmed when she left her phone because people her age are rarely without their phone which got a smile from her.  Everyone was hugely relived she was OK and we all headed back down the mountain to the campsite.  Lee, Pam, and I were in the same car and we just had to stop off at a local farm that had a cheese stand only open on Friday’s and Saturday’s.  The cows were in the front yard (my kind of place) and the cheese was absolutely delicious.  Yes I know we are running over on our grocery budget this month but fresh from the cow cheese, plus you know stressful situation resolved so of course you need cheese!!  It made us all feel better.

Pam at English Homestead Cheese stand

Pam at English Homestead Cheese stand

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Saturday was the last full day and Linda had planned a luau for the evening.  I should say that Linda handles the bulk of the logistics for these rally’s and she does an excellent job.  She talks about herding cats and since I do quite a bit of that in my job I can totally relate 🙂 Everyone appreciated the reunion rally so much that we came up with an idea to do something special for them.  We passed out 4×6 colored paper early in the week and asked everyone to use them to answer the question “What RV-Dreams means to me” on them.  Sue and I worked on it together and brainstormed how to present the papers and came up with poster board to present on the last night.  Then Sue came up with the idea of photo albums so they could take the papers with them wherever they went and she used greeting cards with special sayings on them to make the covers.  At first they trickled in slowly, but soon they came in a flood.  I read them all and was in tears from the sentiment expressed in them which made it very difficult to decide how to place them on the board.  Thankfully Sue, Cori and Kelly came to the rescue and put it all together.  We also discovered Cori has a hidden calligraphy talent and she did a great job with the writing   How to present it was tricky though since we wanted to keep it a surprise until the last-minute.  Since Lee was videotaping the luau for Linda, he came up with the idea to tell her he needed some establishing shots, keep her focused on the camera, and then Sue and Kelly carried the board up through the crowd and Cori came up with me to present the boards and the photo albums.  I had practiced my very short speech at least 25 times that day, but when I got up to speak the emotions of the moment got the better of me for a moment.  Everyone said I did good though which I appreciated.  Essentially my speech was that they had changed everyone’s lives in the room, and although the cards were more eloquent than I could ever be, but the two words used most often were “Thank You.”  Everyone gave them a standing ovation and I could tell they were truly touched.  My favorite part of the present was it cost next to nothing.  We spent $14 at the dollar store, everyone gave a little bit of time, and hopefully we created a memory they will carry with them forever.

 

Sue and Kelly carrying the board

Sue and Kelly carrying the board

Me talking to Howard and Linda

Me talking to Howard and Linda

Howard and Linda looked truly touched

Howard and Linda looked truly touched

The picture albums Sue made

The picture albums Sue made

The board

What Howard and Linda mean to us

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

After the present we all ate dinner which included a full roasted pig and numerous side dishes.  The Linda organized some games which were absolutely hysterical.  We had a wonderful time and it was a great way to finish up an amazing rally.  They said they will definitely do it again and I know we will go to great lengths to be there.

The decorated pavillon

The decorated pavilion

Roasted pig...looked gross tasted amazing

Roasted pig…looked gross tasted amazing

 

It cracks Lee up that Greg keeps licking things

It cracks Lee up that Greg keeps licking things

Beach Ball relay race

Beach Ball relay race

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Cori and Pam getting up close and personal

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Cori waddling…she was into it!!

Luau dress up relay race

Pam in the Luau dress up relay race

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Bridget was holding it all together

 

 

I loved that she had chair volley ball. It was nice Linda have activities that anyone could do

I loved that there was a chair volley ball game. It was nice of Linda to have activities that anyone could do

Flip Flop Toss

Flip Flop Toss

 

My favorite game was when Linda dressed some guys up as warriors and had them use darts to “slay” a watermelon pig.  One of the funniest moments was when she asked Lee to get a different angle shot facing the darts.  The look on his face was priceless as she asked him to let the guys throw darts in his direction so he could get the shot.  He must really like here though, because he did it and thankfully no cameramen were injured in the making of that video!!  The warriors weren’t having much luck hitting the pig though and Linda said it was a million points if they hit the flower.  She dressed Howard up then and the poor guy could barely see and on his first shot he not only hit the pig he hit the flower!!!  Amazing and he was definitely as surprised as the rest of us.  It was a really fun night, Linda obviously put a lot into it, and everyone had a really good time.

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Sharon showing David what to do

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The guys were hysterical they could barely see in the masks

 

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Lee facing the deadly darts

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The warriors

 

 

Linda dressing Howard

Linda dressing Howard

 

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He couldn’t see anything

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Pat added a second mask

Pat added a second mask

 

Hoard takes aim

Howard takes aim

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Unbelievable right on the flower first try!!!

Unbelievable right on the flower first try!!!

Howard can't believe he made the shot

Howard can’t believe he made the shot

 

Sunday we had the final breakfast before we rolled out and finally got our group picture.  I won’t say much other than there was a lot of tears and hugs.  I truly feel connected to these people in a very special way and I am so happy we were all able to be together.

Lee, me, Red, Pam, Guy, Sue, Pat, Bridget, Dave, Sharon, Cori, Greg, Bill, Kelly, Jo, and Craig

Come of the Dreamer Class of 2014                        Lee/ me, Red/Pam, Guy/Sue, Pat/Bridget, Dave/ Sharon, Cori/Greg, Bill/Kelly, and Jo/Craig

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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First Time at a Reunion Rally – Part 1

A year ago Lee and I went to the RV Dreams educational rally in Sevierville, TN and the experience changed our lives.  I do not say this lightly or with hyperbole, but seriously, with a depth of feeling I wish I could express.  Two things changed what was a dream into a reality.  The first was Howard and Linda.  A couple who in their mid forties left their successful corporate lives to go on the road.  In order to really understand the courage of this decision you need to put it into context.  10 years ago the resources for full-time RVers were scant, plus the demographic of folks doing this was largely retired people.  The resources we have today around finding campgrounds and learning about the lifestyle largely didn’t exist and truly I view Howard and Linda as pioneers. That’s not why they changed our lives though.  Howard and Linda shared what they had learned in a way that was credible to me.  I was extremely skeptical (as were many others at that first rally) but after listening to everything Howard and Linda shared, reading Howard’s blog from the beginning, looking at their budgets, and truly seeing in person they were legit, I changed my mind. I have said before that Lee would have done this no matter what, but no way would I have had the courage to take this big of a risk without meeting people who had done it before.  I also was lucky enough to have dinner with Howard and Linda during a work trip and they put the majority of my fears at rest simply by telling the truth and being who they are.  So several months ago when the first ever reunion rally was announced, I knew Lee and I had to be there.

Linda and Howard

Linda and Howard

 

 

 

Rally

Part of the Rally lineup

Class of 2014 rigs all in a line

Class of 2014 rigs all in a line

 

 

 

 

 

 

View of pavillion in rally park

View of pavilion in rally park

 

The second thing the education rally gave me was the Dreamer Class of 2014.  A huge group of people who are ALL on the road now (Ellen finally retired and has talked Mario into trying it for while!!) This support system of like-minded people is what has made this possible for me. I have spent hours talking to these folks about what is happening with them and since we are largely going through the same things at similar times having validation and really just knowing I am not alone has helped  so much.  I don’t know that I would have chickened out, but I can absolutely say my ride would have been much rougher without this support system.  So I was very excited to meet up with several members of the group again in Marion at the reunion rally, and we made arrangements to all park our rigs in a line with each other so we could be together.  Not that we wanted to be exclusive.  To the contrary, the opportunity to meet people who had been doing this for longer at the rally was really exciting for us.  Many of us are on the RV-Dreams forum (a discussion board sponsored by RV-Dreams) and it’s always cool to meet people you have been “talking to” in person. Plus finally we were going to meet up with Pam and Red.  We had met them at the first rally and really enjoyed being with them, but their plans took them to Alaska and out west while we were on the east coast selling the house and generally getting situated.  Since Lee’s goal was always to go out west, he would often look at their pictures and say, “Screw Red and Pam!!”  He meant of course that they were in all the places we wanted to be and we had serious route envy going on.

Pam and here baby Cody

Pam and her baby Cody

Craig and Red in Red's ATV. The dogs like to hang out in back

Craig and Red in Red’s ATV. The dogs like to hang out in back

 

We all came into the rally in ones and twos and it took some coordination to get us all in a line together.  Friday night there was an informal bonfire and then Saturday night things really got hopping.  Folks gathered at our place for a few cocktails and then we headed up to the pavilion for a yummy BBQ dinner.  Because this is the first reunion rally and things are less structured than an educational rally, Howard and Linda took the opportunity to communicate to the team, but I have to admit we were a little rowdy. Linda got us through it and then we all played an ice breaker game that ended up with a huge marshmallow fight.  A ton of fun and a great way to meet some other people.  I sat with a woman named Char who was at the first 5 rallies Howard and Linda had ever done.  This rally is their 16th by the way…quite an accomplishment.  Friday night a small group of us decided to play hooky from the large group bonfire circle, and we had our own small fire down by the creek behind our campsites.  I say play hooky, but I went and talked to Howard and Linda first to make sure we weren’t missing anything.  Yes I was that kid in school…asking permission to play hooky!!  The highlight of the evening was when David got out his guitar and played some original songs he wrote for us.  My favorites were “Simplicity” and “Trippin” which are about a simpler life and the RV lifestyle.  Before hitting the road, David and Sharon owned a small Bed and Breakfast called Butterfly Hollow (you really should click on the link and check it out).  They rebuilt the 100 year old house using reclaimed wood from the house and barn, and turned it into a B&B.  When they grew to the point they knew they would have to hire additional help they had reached a crossroads.  Grow the business to support the additional labor, downsize back into a smaller business, or go on the road and sell it to someone else who would continue the business.  They chose to seek the next adventure, and we have all been fascinated by their story since day one.  It is a beautiful place, a dream place, and the story shows you that your dreams can change and it’s perfectly OK.  Lee and I hadn’t spent much time with them and are so happy they are here so we can get to know them better in person.  Facebook has allowed us to follow their travels…and since they started on the road 15 days before us we feel a particular affinity to them.  Plus they are super cool people…so glad they are here. 

 

Hobie and Laci Lou in Sue's doggie daycare

Hobie and Laci Lou in Sue’s doggie daycare

Howard tending the first bonfire

Howard tending the first bonfire

 

Social time before the first dinner

Social time before the first dinner

Louise is on the left...who Cori says is the coolest RV person she has ever met !! Have to say I was a little jealous :)

Louise is on the left…who Cori says is the coolest RV person she has ever met !! Have to say I was a little jealous 🙂

Bill coming off the dinner line.

Bill Mills coming off the dinner line.

Our Bill in front

Our Bill in front

 

David and Sharon

David and Sharon

Cori and Greg listening to David sing. Hobie seemed to like ti too

Cori and Greg listening to David sing. Hobie seemed to like it too

Another great fire by Mr. Craig

Another great fire by Mr. Craig

Bridget and Pat who are part timers we met in Sevierville

Bridget and Pat who are part timers we met in Sevierville

 

Sunday, I took the entire day off.  Kept thinking I should probably be doing something, but it’s been such a long time since I just chilled, I thought I needed it.  I took a nap and everything!  We did have an ice cream social in the evening which was fun although they only sent two people to work it and my project management and efficiency expert personality just couldn’t take it, so Pam and I jumped in and helped get the line moving.  Once we had a system going things flowed much smoother.  Afterwards we had a small bonfire with James and his wife Cindy joining our circle. James is in a position to go full-time but can’t quite get there mentally..so Kelly staged a bit of an intervention with all the FT couples going around the fire and telling him what they liked and didn’t like about the lifestyle.  At first I worried that we were coming on too strong, but the next morning James came over and thanked us for talking to him.  He said he may need to move up his timeline!!

Pam helping at the ice cream social

Pam helping at the ice cream social

Craig building another perfect fire

Craig building another perfect fire

Cindy and James in the front and Bob behind

Cindy and James in the front and Bob behind.  Cindy is laughing at something inappropriate Lee said

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Memorial Day was a very full day.  There was a breakfast in the morning followed by group pictures.  Then family reunion style games between 1pm and 4pm and finally a pot luck at 6pm.  Lee volunteered to videotape the games for Linda and I volunteered at the pot luck table and took some stills for the video Lee is putting together.   After dinner (which was awesome), we watched a memorial day tribute Linda had put together.  She celebrated our veterans and asked any family members with active military personnel to stand up.  We were so proud to be able to stand up for our daughter in the Air Force.  Her slide show also showed Dreamer family members who had passed away and two widows of men who had died were in the room.  It was a very moving tribute and I know it meant a lot to the women they left behind.  For many people, fulltiming is their lifelong dream, and when it is shortened by the loss of a partner it is incredibly sad.  Without exception though every single person in this situation says they loved the years they have and encourages every couple to make the most of their time together. Stories like theirs help reinforce our decision to do this.

Group from 2014 Seveierville, TN rally

Group from 2014 Seveierville, TN rally

Everyone was pretty fascinated by Red's drone

Everyone was pretty fascinated by Red’s drone

Red pulled the drone out and drew a crowd

The drone really is pretty cool

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Bill was awesome at this game and was beating Howard

Bill was awesome at this game and was beating Howard

 

Balloon Toss

Balloon Toss

Then Squirt the balloons in to a bottle..whoever gets the most wins

Then Squirt the balloons in to a bottle..whoever gets the most wins

 

And of course at the end it turned into a water balloon fight.

Linda chasing Howard

Linda going after Howard

Howard running away

Howard running away

 

Howard gets hit finally

Howard finally gets hit!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Everyone helped out at the potluck

Everyone helped out at the potluck

What an awesome spread

What an awesome spread

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Tuesday started off to a busy start as Lee was approached by three different RVers for work on their camper.  Since Tom Johnson is booked out for three weeks, many folks here had something relatively minor they wanted to take care of.  Lee replaced a broken window first thing in the morning and then looked at a couple other jobs for people.  It’s a nice affirmation but the RV Tech school was the way to go and although we are still a long way from getting the business totally up and running, things look very promising.  I worked Tuesday and Wednesday (took vacation Thursday and Friday for whitewater rafting and hiking)  and Lee was editing the video he shot Monday along with researching the RV jobs.  So we were busy, but a good busy, and of course we had time at night to get together with our friends.  Since we had such a good time on Cinco De Mayo we all decided Tuesday was a good party night for us.  We had happy hour, then steaks for dinner, and lots of dancing.  Linda and Howard came over to hang out and everyone seemed to have a really good time.  One thing about the class of 2014 is is we throw one hell of a party and Tuesday is definitely our night!!

Bill surpassed himself as bartender. The Pina Coloadas were so good

Bill surpassed himself as bartender. The Pina Coladas were so good

Howard talking to Cori and Sue. I don't think he got a word in edgewise :)

Howard was talking to Cori and Sue for a long time.  I don’t think he got to actually say anything lol  but he seemed to be having fun

 

 Recipes

Watermelon Fruit Basket

  • Watermelon (Oblong shaped)  I prefer seeded but it’s your choice
  • Grapes (white and purple)
  • Strawberries
  • Pineapple
  1.  Cut top of watermelon to make edges
  2. Scoop/cut watermelon out and place into a bowl
  3. Rinse inside of watermelon husk out removing seeds
  4. Cut watermelon into bite size pieces
  5. Cut strawberries into slices
  6. Place watermelon in the middle
  7. Place a row of strawberries on each side
  8. Place a row of grapes on each end
  9. Put pineapple chunks on top and bottom edges
  10. Mix leftover fruit into a bowl and use to replenish husk when empty or serve separately
Watermelon Fruit Bowl

Watermelon Fruit Basket

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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First Time Getting Solar

We have been talking about getting solar since before we bought our rig because Lee has always been interested in Boondocking.  Boondocking is camping with no outside water, electric, or hookup to dump your black tank.  The reason Boondocking is so attractive to people is to get to the places that are really out in the middle of nowhere you generally need to give up the services. Also it is much cheaper.  For example, our average campground fee is running $25 a night, but Jim and Barb (who do a lot of boondocking) had an average campground fee of $5 last year.  A solar solution helps you generate your own electricity.  The system is sized based upon how much electricity you think you will need in a day and varies from rig to rig and person to person.  We have a generator which will use propane to generate electricity, but we only had one battery and generators are pretty noisy.  Some campgrounds have designated generator hours and others don’t allow generators at all.  We knew we would need some sort of solution, but we also wanted to make sure we had enough information to order the right system for us.  Plus, cost is a factor.  A top of the line system can be very expensive and we knew we wanted a small system to start with the ability to upgrade over time as our needs changed.  Enter our friend Greg who owns RV Solar Solutions.  Greg sat with us and really listened, helping us determine the  ideal system for our rig.  He was understanding of the fact that we are on a budget and we ended up with a quality, perfectly sized system that was affordable and met our needs.  He also designed it with future upgrades in mind, so we can add more panels if we decide to  add a residential refrigerator. Currently our refrigerator runs on propane or electricity, which is great, but it’s also pretty small, which is not so great.  They are also pretty expensive to replace, so if this one ever dies, we will probably replace it with a residential fridge.  Since those fridges won’t run on propane, you either have to be on electric hookups all the time or have an alternative way of generating your own electricity.  It sounds simple, but it’s not, and having a professional help navigate the myriad of choices  was invaluable.

For those who care, we ended up getting 4 panels and 4 batteries with an inverter and a controller.  Honestly, I don’t understand everything about it yet, but the important thing for me is we have enough juice to run my fan and noise machine all night long and the system is set up to automatically shut off when you hit below 50% charge on the batteries.  The batteries we bought are very expensive and have a shelf life, so it’s important we don’t reduce their useful life by taking them below 50% charge too often. Greg oversized our system and programmed it to shut off to ensure we would never be put into that situation. So here’s the specs…again not sure what all this means but I know it matters to some people.

  • Four 6 volt 220 amp Lifeline AGM batteries
  • Four 160 watt Grape Solar panels
  • Magnum Pure Sine 1200 watt Inverter
  • Blue Sky 3000i Solar Charge Controller

Here’s some pictures of the install.  The guys all wanted to get in on the action and learn more about solar and I didn’t mind.  Plus with so many helpers the job went really fast.

Our roof before panels

Our roof before panels

Bill helping with the install

Bill helping with the install

Closeup of one of the panels. They are rated for 70 mph winds and 1/4" hail which is pretty cool

Closeup of one of the panels. They are rated for 70 mph winds and 1/4″ hail which is pretty cool

Lee and Craig on the roof

Lee and Craig on the roof

Voila. The fourth you can't see in the shot

Voila. The fourth you can’t see in the shot

Lee drilling the hole in our closet with craig looking on. The holes are minimal and I don't even notice them

Lee drilling the hole in our closet with Craig looking on. The holes are minimal and I don’t even notice them

Craig working on the wiring

Craig working on the wiring

Greg hooking up the inverter

Greg hooking up the inverter

 

Obviously we wanted to try it out and when we left OBX we and three other couples stopped at a Cracker Barrel and spent the night.  Many businesses allow RVers to spend the night in their parking lots because it doesn’t cost them anything and they can benefit from the good will and business revenue from RVers.  One of the most RV friendly businesses is Cracker Barrel; all of their locations (excepting those in a city where local ordinance does not allow it) allow folks to spend the night.  There are different schools of thought on “Wallydocking” as it is commonly called.  Some people love it, do it frequently, and use it as a way to keep down costs.  Others rarely, if ever do it, preferring to stay in campgrounds or “Moochdock” at a friend’s home.  We were interested in trying it, and although the experiment was extremely successful from a power standpoint (we had enough juice to watch 2 hours of TV, read, and then run the fan all night) neither Lee nor I was crazy about the overall experience.  Let me be clear, the Cracker Barrel manager was really nice and allowed us to stay in the evening and into late morning with no issues but we weren’t particularly comfortable with the arrangement.  The parking lot was not level so we were at an angle (Lee said he dreamed about falling all night) and we both felt “exposed”.  Nothing unsafe happened, but we just didn’t feel very comfortable.  Also in this case it actually was not cost-effective.  We spent about $40 eating a dinner and then breakfast at Cracker Barrel and although we saved $25 on campground fees it did not help the budget overall.  It is considered polite to spend money at the place you are staying at, and although no one enforces the rule the thought is if too many people take advantage the companies will discontinue allowing it.  I will say I am interested in trying a Walmart though, because groceries are part of our standard budget, so we could buy some groceries and follow the spirit of the etiquette without any incremental cost.  We would still have the safety issue to deal with though, but we will need to try it more and see.  So even though we didn’t get the solar to Wallydock we are glad that we now have this option if we can’t find a reasonably priced campground in the area we are traveling through.  As an FYI, we have been using Passport America campgrounds on most travel days and that has worked very well for us.  We have services and generally the cost is around $17.  They aren’t always the nicest campgrounds but we have yet to run across one where we didn’t feel at least marginally safe. Again, we are very very new to this and some people swear by it, so we really need to try it a few more times before we make a final judgement.

As far as  boondocking in general we will see when we get out west. I will say I am cautiously optimistic, and since we have two weeks scheduled at the farm in Wisconsin and two weeks scheduled with Deb and Steve in Glacier National Park we will get plenty of opportunities to figure it out. For me those two places drove  the decision to get solar sooner rather than later. Glacier is an absolute bucket list item for me, and I am taking a week’s vacation so we can go deep into the park.  The farm is owned by my future son-in-law’s parents.  We stayed with them with our travel trailer and had a wonderful time, but they only have 15amp service so we knew this time we would need to be able to produce our own energy to make it work.  Plus (and this is no small thing) I trust Greg and the quality of his work. Those three things drove me to dip into our contingency fund to make this happen.

As a side note we have been spending some of our contingency.  The solar and the wedding were the major factors thus far.  I am going to talk more about budgets at the end of this month, but at the halfway point it’s not looking pretty.  Being with friends for three weeks and then the rally has had a financial impact.  Would I change my decisions?…largely no… but this month is a special circumstance.  I am concerned though because next month we are visiting our home town and the month after that is the wedding, so there are two more months of special circumstances coming up. When I balance the cost with the quality of experiences it’s a no-brainer, but we will need to find  a balance  between living this amazing life and our costs.  We simply aren’t there yet, and I try to give myself a break and think of it as the “newbie” learning curve, but it’s tough. I do feel it’s important to mention to provide a balanced picture of what’s happening.

We went back to Ebenezer Park for the week between OBX and the rally and I got to spend some more time with my sister and her family.  I also scheduled a work trip and was in New Hampshire and Westminster, MA Monday through Thursday morning.  I worked in the Westminster corporate office for 12 years and had not been back since I went out on the road.  People’s reactions were pretty interesting.  Many folks knew I was doing something unusual and were interested.  Others are closer friends and they have been following on Facebook and the blog and they were VERY interested. My favorite experience was having dinner with two long-time close friends Kellie and Kathy.  They have known me forever and as we have created a support system for each other have seen me at my best and worst over the years so their opinions carry weight with me.  Both of them were genuinely happy for me and kept saying how great I looked and how I had this glow.  Kathy said if a year ago someone had said Tracy would be traveling the country in an RV she would have laughed at them…and rightly so…if you knew me before you never would have thought I would have done something this unconventional.  And they both stressed that they could just tell how happy I was.  They also mentioned I am not that good a liar so they knew it was true. Their comments meant a lot to me, particularly because these are both women who talk straight and if they thought I looked like shit they would definitely tell me…they have certainly done it before. It was an external validation of the choice I made from people who really care about me and it was a great evening.  As Kellie said, “You took a risk and it’s wonderful to see that it paid off.”  Couldn’t have summed it up better myself.

Lee spent the last three days working on a project for the RV, shooting video of an install for Greg, and hanging out with the gang who fed him in my absence.  Not that he is not capable of feeding himself, but Lee is never one to turn down good food.  When I came back into Charlotte on Thursday, Lee and I went to see my sister who made us a wonderful dinner and made Lee two whole chocolate pies from scratch.  Right out of high school Wendy went to pastry school (that’s where she met her husband) and even though she is a nurse now, she still is the best baker I know.  Plus she’s known Lee since she was a little kid and is aware that the best way to his heart is with pie.  So Lee was in pie heaven and we got to spend some quality time with the boys, the baby, and Josh.  I was sad though.  Wendy and I have spent more time together in the last six months than we have in 10 years and it made me sad that Abram (who is 11 months old) won’t remember any of it.  Since we are headed out west it may be awhile before we get to see him again, and the thought was not a pleasant one.  I am going to have to start pulling out those ideas for staying in touch with kids on the road I have been reading about, because I absolutely love the little peanut and want him to know who his Aunt Tracy and Uncle Lee are.

So it was another full week and now we are headed to Marion, NC and the reunion rally.  We scheduled this trip 9 months ago and are very excited to see Red and Pam who have been out west for the past year and we miss very much. Plus looking forward to seeing Howard and Linda again and meeting other RV Dreamers and learning from them.  The opportunity to learn in person from long-time full timers is a valuable one and I know I will have lots to add to my “Things I Learned from RV Dreams” page…so stay tuned.

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Six Months on the Road

On November 14, 2014, Lee and I closed on our house and headed out on the road.  I thought the six month mark would be a good time to summarize what’s happened so far and share my overall thoughts.

What we have done in the last six months

  • Stayed six weeks in Rock Hill, SC;  ten weeks in Tampa,FL;  three weeks in St. Augustine, FL;  and four weeks in the Outer Banks, SC.
  • Camped with Cori and Greg, Deb and Steve, Jo and Ben, Kelly and Bill, Eileen and Gene, Jo and Craig, and Sue and Guy.
  • Spent Thanksgiving and Christmas with my sister and her family. Celebrated my nephews birthday in person.
  • Lee became a certified mobile tech graduating from RVTC
  • Was able to be with my grandfather, mother, and uncle and aunts when my grandmother died in Florida.  Although this was incredibly sad I was grateful I was so close to my grandfather and could be with him.
  • Earned four state stickers (North Carolina, South Carolina, Georgia, and Florida)
  • Visited (for the first time) and listed in the order we would be most likely to return: Charleston, SC; Jekyll Island, GA, Outer Banks, SC; Clearwater, FL; Tarpon Springs, FL, Asheville, NC; St. Augustine, FL.  (Charleston and Jekyll Island were long time bucket list places for me and completely lived up to my expectations)
  • Established Florida State Residency.  It was painful but we got it done.
  • Stayed at two state parks, numerous private campgrounds, and one 55+ RV community
  • Established and maintained a monthly budget.  Still a work in progress, but we put a stake in the ground.
  • For  activities we have taken a sunset cruise, conquered an adventure ropes course, watched taps being played at sunset, gone on a ferry, kayaked on the ocean, sang karaoke in a bar, enjoyed campfires on the beach, and gone on numerous nature walks.
  • We have visited (among many other places) Kitty Hawk, Charleston Waterfront park, The Citadel, Charleston Provost Dungeon, Roanoke Island, Bodie Lighthouse, Kennedy Space Center, Clearwater Marine Aquarium, The Florida Botanical Gardens, Angel Oak, Patriots Point, and The Georgia Sea Turtle Center.

Some of our Favorite Moments posted roughly in chronological order

  • Seeing Cori and Greg in PA our first night on the road.  Stopping to be with them made it real and spending the first few days with them was very special
  • Holding my new nephew for the first time and having him give me big smile.  There were many moments with us and Abram but that first big smile was a killer.
  • Having breakfast at Anna J’s with Deb and Steve.  Deb got eggs and catfish and inspired me (not for the first time) to try new things  in this new life.  (the catfish was excellent and I would never in a million years have ordered it)
  • Lee taking my nephew Alec to the magic store.  Alec is 10 and the perfect age for Lee to share his love of magic with.  They spent the entire afternoon together and had a blast.
  • Stumbling across Looking Glass Waterfall in Pisquah National Forest.  I was struggling with a big decision regarding work at the time and when we accidentally found this amazing waterfall, I felt God was giving my my answer.
  • Making my edible “Christmas Tree” for the birds and squirrels.  Lee was not only supportive but really helped me make it a reality and I felt great when it actually worked out the way I pictured it in my head.
  • Spending a weekend in Charleston.  I have wanted to visit the city every since I first read the Prince of Tides and it completely lived up to my expectations of it.  Every single thing we did there was special and I loved it.
  • Spending a day at Patriot’s Point and touring an air craft carrier. Lee absolutely loved it and I had more fun than I thought I would.
  • Spending Christmas morning with my sister and the kids.  Watching the boys open their soccer presents, having Bailey actually like the gift card I got her, and being with Abram on his very first Christmas was so special and something that would never have happened if we hadn’t gone out on the road.
  • Seeing the turtles at the Georgia Sea Turtle Center on Jekyll Island.  I love sea turtles and they do an amazing job there of caring for them and releasing as many as possible back into the wild.  Plus Jekyll island itself was an amazing place and I would love to go there again.
  • Kayaking with Gene and Eileen
  • Seeing Jo, Ben, Kelly, Bill, Eileen, and Gene in Fort Meyers. Plus taking a boat ride with Jo and Ben.  Didn’t see any manatee but what a wonderful relaxing day.
  • Seeing Cori and Greg in Florida when they drove down for the boondocking rally.  They drove extra long  so we could spend time with them and I started crying as soon as I saw Cori.  Was so glad she had made it.
  • Getting to spend time with everyone the day we visited the BoonDocking rally.  It was really nice of Linda and Howard to let us crash for a day.
  • The dolphins swimming next to our boat on our amazing sunset cruise with Jo and Ben and Kelly and Bill.
  • Watching taps being played with Lee at Indian Rocks Beach and having Lee take off his shoes and walk in the surf.  
  • Dinner with Jen and Nando at the Pub Waterfront Restaurant
  • Lunch at the turkish restaurant in Epcot with Kat and Micah
  • Seeing where the Apollo missions launched at Kennedy Space Center with Kat, Micah, and Lee
  • Seeing the MD Oriental Market with Lee and buying some crazy stuff
  • The few times one of my new recipes was a home run and watching Lee’s face as he enjoyed every bite.
  • The farmer’s market in St. Augustine, Florida
  • Driving through Pea Island on the way to Ocean Waves campground  and seeing the wild dunes
  • When Cori and Greg rolled into Ocean Waves Campground.  They were finally on the road after such a long wait and it was a very cool to share in that moment with them
  • Bill making me a fantastic rum sour with a little umbrella in it.
  • Walking the same ground where the first flight took off at Kitty Hawk
  • Celebrating Cinco De Mayo with Sue, Guy, Cori, Greg, Bill, Kelly, Jo, and Craig
  • Conquering the adventure park with Lee and Kelly.  I was so proud of Kelly for overcoming her fears.  She inspired me to push my own limits.
  • Watching my very first ever full moon rise.  Very very cool.
  • The night the beach fire exploded
  • Kelly and I singing Karaoke together.  Rocking a little “Jack and Diane”
  • Walking Hobie on the beach and collecting shells
  • Girls night with Jo, Eileen, Sue, Cori, and Kelly and making our shell picture frames
  • Sue cutting my hair outside her camper.  It was so sweet of her and she did a really terrific job.
  • Our last campfire together on the beach where we all talked about what we liked most about the life.  It was a very special moment

Can I just say here that seriously this list amazes me.  I was a real couch potato before we started on this adventure and spent a whole lot of time reading, watching TV, killing time on the computer.  That I managed to do all the things above in 6 months is absolutely incredible.  And I don’t feel over stressed or tired…I feel invigorated and am looking forward to doing more.

Lessons Learned

  • We really don’t like moving days.  And no it isn’t as simple as changing the time we move or how far we travel.  We like to spread out when we stay in a place and the chaos of moving day still isn’t any fun for either of us.  We have gotten better at it, but not our favorite day by far.
  • We like staying in one place and really seeing things.  We are fine with staying in a place 2-4 weeks as a matter of fact we prefer it.  Because of my work schedule we are limited in the things we can do during the work week so need at least two weekends to really see what an area has to offer.
  • We like full hookups.  I say that knowing full well we haven’t gotten out west yet and we are excited about exploring the possibilities of boon docking, but all other things being equal we would take full hookups every time.  It enables you to do laundry in the RV, take long showers, and not worry about how much water you use when washing dishes.
  • The best things to do are free or near free.  The most rewarding experiences we have had to date cost very little money and are fulfilling in ways I rarely experienced while on vacation.  Speaking of vacation you do have to remind yourself frequently you are not on one.  The desire to see and do everything right now is very strong.  Slowing down and really experiencing the life is in our opinion far more rewarding.
  • We do watch television.  Yes I know you think you’ll be out exploring with all of your free time, but sometimes you just want to sit an veg in your coach and watch some TV.  Plus it gives you a sense of normalcy when you’re in a strange place and bad weather days do happen.
  • Everything you read in the forums just isn’t true. Since we knew nothing about camping, let alone full timing, I tended to take everything I read on the forums as the gospel.  Many “facts”  are situational, others are opinion presented as fact, and the one only one thing I have found to be absolutely true is there is no one true way.
  • Being with friends is complicated but well worth it.  The country is a big place and if you want to be with people you need to go to some trouble.  But, for us, the trouble is well worth the added benefit with being with others who truly get the lifestyle.  These friendships have grown deeper and stronger because we are investing in them.
  • Not everyone will be happy for you.  Some people are jealous, others think you don’t deserve it.  Still others think it’s all a scam or a big lie.  That’s ok.  I care less and less what others think as the days go by and that is a wonderful side benefit to the lifestyle.
  • This life can make or break a relationship.  It is not easy and it definitely isn’t for everyone.  If you have problems in your relationship this lifestyle will initially make them worse not better…but that being said if you can truly be honest with each other and communicate, communicate, communicate your relationship can grow in ways you never imagined.

 

Campground Reviews

Ocean Waves Campground  Rte 12, Rodanthe, NC 5 out of 5 pinecones  (2015)

Absolutely fantastic campground with easy access to National seashore.  Their off-season monthly rate was a very reasonable $630 with a $55 electric fee.  Cable television is available.  Wifi in the campground is very strong.  We did have a bit of issues with ATT coverage on some stormy days, but I was able to work consistently the month I was here.  Restrooms are very clean, the staff is paying attention without being intrusive, and they were very good about allowing us to accept packages.  We stayed in site 45 which was fabulous.  We were centrally located and could go north or south to see the sites.  The city of Rodanthe itself is one of the least populated and I like the wild dunes in Pea Island which is right down the road.  I would absolutely return to this campground and give it my highest recommendation.

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First Mother’s Day on the Road

Another busy week here at the OBX compound. On Thursday, Glyn and his wife Diane from RV Driving School arrived.  Several weeks ago Jo (who took training from him and now drives her rig almost everywhere) arranged for Glyn Carson from RV Driving School to come and visit our group here in OBX.  They were willing to send him for four couples so Lee and I, Cori/Greg, Kelly/Bill, and Sue/Guy signed up.  So Glyn and Diane arrived on Thursday and Jo cooked a very nice meal for the group for their arrival.  We had a nice time chatting and since the weather was perfect we built a fire down on the beach.  The circle was much bigger with 12 couples so Craig built a larger fire than normal.  I had a lovely chat with Glyn and Diane who are very nice people.  Their story is very cool because they started full timing when Glyn was 47 and ended up moving to Alaska after they fell in love with it.  Glyn worked as an ice road trucker and after 14 years he semi-retired again and they are back on the road.   Very interesting because Lee and I are that age and it’s great to hear a story from someone who full timed for a while, took a break, and started again.  Eventually the crowd dwindled down and there were only 7 of us left.  The tide started to rise and we all sat in our chairs laughing when we had to lift our feet when a wave came up too close.  Suddenly a particularly strong wave completely covered our fire and BAM there was a steam explosion.  Sand, water, and wood sprayed everywhere and thankfully no one was hurt.  I got a huge glob of wet sand on the top of my head and when we were sure everyone was OK we all started laughing hysterically.  Craig (who was a professional fireman) was as surprised as the rest of us.  So it was amazing BUT please do not try this at home.  We are really lucky no one got hurt!!

Craig built a beautiful fire

Craig built a beautiful fire

Hobie likes to hang out on the beach. Luckily Greg took him up before the explosion

Hobie likes to hang out on the beach. Luckily Greg took him up before the explosion

I was a mess the picture doesn't do it justice

I was a mess the picture doesn’t do it justice

 

On Saturday, Sue planned an excursion for us to Alligator River National Wildlife Refuge.  I teased her that she needed an itinerary to plan an excursion for a group of this size and without a beat she made the following flyer for all of us and handed them out.  This made me laugh so hard, because Sue was poking back at me about my tendency to over-schedule.  I love that Sue has a wicked sense of humor and was excited that she was going to navigate the group for the day.  Whenever we go anywhere it’s 3-4 cars, coordinating the leave times, and finding a good place for lunch.  Oh, and you’d better check Trip Advisor for that lunch!  So the outings have been a blast but keeping everyone together is a bit like herding cats, so I loved just going along for the ride on this one.

Sue's invitation was awesome

Sue’s invitation was hysterical

The drive to anywhere here is absolutely beautiful and Lee and I had a great time in the car and were in the back of the pack when we all came to a stop.  Now, finding a place to pull over with 4 vehicles (two of them dually’s)  in a line is challenging, but I give Jo huge credit (she was driving the lead truck) for pulling us into a side residential street.  Turns out the address shown above is not 100% accurate…actually there was no true address for the refuge.  Every wildlife place we have been has a ranger station of some kind that offers information on the park.  This one had two wooden stands with a couple of maps.  The maps were not super clear as the street markers were very faded.  Also the roads were dirt and gravel and were supposed to be wildlife drives but truly not so much. The “restrooms” marked on the map for example was one port-a-john. At this point we have been to lots of these parks and none of us have ever seen anything like this.  So it really was a great day to not be in charge of the schedule.   Sue did a valiant job of getting us all to the first walking area…I say valiant because there was no cell service, the GPS didn’t work, and the maps were super unclear. But we made it and the walk itself was very nice.  The park is off the island on the mainland and was quite a bit more humid than we have been experiencing but the flowers and foliage were very pretty.  It was also very interesting walking the path with Craig and Glyn who are experienced hunters.  There was quite a bit of bear sign around the path and they pointed out to me how I could tell where the bear had been.  We didn’t see any bear (probably for the best) but I did learn a ton about tracking their movements.   Afterwards we had a great lunch at Tortuga’s Lie Restaurant.  The jerk chicken was the best I have ever had and then everyone split off to run errands.   It really was a lovely day and Sue did a wonderful job.  Hmmm we may need to give her the additional title of Excursion Planner!!  Seriously Sue would have made an awesome cruise director.

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Bear poop..the guys said it was about 2 days old

Bear poop..the guys said it was about 2 days old

tough to see in pic but this was a bear paw print

tough to see in pic but this was a bear paw print

The bear scratched at this tree branch to get to grubs. Gave us an idea of how tall it was. Look for the gouges

The bear scratched at this tree branch to get to grubs. Gave us an idea of how tall it was. Look for the gouges

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Greg, Bill, and Kelly at the restaurant

Greg, Bill, and Kelly at the restaurant

From left: Sue, Glyn, Diane, Guy, Jo, and Craig

From left: Sue, Glyn, Diane, Guy, Jo, and Craig

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

As if the day wasn’t nice enough, when we got back to the campground there were flowers waiting for me at the rig.  My middle daughter Kat worked with my husband to send me flowers at the campground for Mother’s day.  They were absolutely beautiful and the card brought tears to my eyes.  My oldest daughter Kyrston had called a few days back to ask about what to give me and I knew exactly what I wanted so she shipped the soy lotion candle to my sister. I also had a great conversation with Kay, my youngest.  She admitted she was at a loss as to what I would want…a great question since we just got rid of everything and are pretty tough to buy for.  I told her an ITunes gift card was good anytime, because there was always music or ebooks that I would be interested in.   Since this was my first Mother’s Day on the road I wasn’t sure what to expect but my kids all went out of their way to tell me and show me how much I mean to them.  Really there is nothing else a Mother could ask for and I am truly grateful to them all.  They have been 100% supportive of our full timing lifestyle from the very beginning and I am exceptionally proud of the women they have become.

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Mother’s Day morning my driving lessons started.  I was really mellow about the whole thing until the morning of the first session.  The girls all got up and came out in their pajamas to wish me luck, which was incredibly sweet and I found myself getting nervous.  I have driven some, mostly on the interstate, and was starting to get nervous about driving “in town”.  Glyn was very calm however.  As he said later, after driving a truck in Alaska all those years not much could rattle him.  We practiced backing up, parallel parking in a shopping center so you can get out (my favorite part) and lots of left and right turns.  Because you use your own rig the lessons are extremely helpful and after a few hours I felt MUCH more confident.  One of the best things he did was show me what would happen with a little toy truck and trailer first.  I was having a heck of a time visualizing what was happening on the “blind side” of the trailer, but when Glyn showed me with the toy a light bulb finally went off in my head.  Lee is a good teacher and has been very patient, but I just wasn’t getting certain things.  Glyn showing me and all those things Lee had said finally clicked.  Each couple had purchased 2 sessions of 4 hours each for $440.  The price is on the high side but it is hard to put a price on gaining that level of confidence.  Also I called my insurance company and they did say we would get a break on our insurance for taking the class, so hopefully that will help offset the cost.   I will say though that for me I think a single 4 hour session would have been sufficient, but I have already driven some and you may feel you need the additional hours of practice.  The great thing about Glyn is he is very open to providing a custom experience.  A couple of the women stated they were nervous about driving over bridges and he immediately changed their route to make sure it included bridge driving.

Lee got his first official RV Tech repair gig.  I say that because he has been fixing stuff for us and our friends since school finished, and we’ve been working on finalizing the details of the business.  He put the sign out when we hit OBX and his first job was replacing  a Norcold 1200 cooling unit.  As these things go that’s a pretty big job, but he jumped right in and successfully completed the installation.  You may have noticed I added a map on the right hand side of the webpage showing where we are at any given time.  As soon as we complete Lee’s webpage,  I will be adding a map to show our upcoming route and we will definitely be adding a DIY tab on this site to show all the customizations he has done.  We have never been small business owners so we are working our way through the marketing and accounting aspects of running a small business and our friends Cori and Greg of RV Solar Solutions have been very helpful in sharing their many years experience in running a small business with us.

Monday we got hit with the tail end of a tropical storm and it poured on and off all day.  Gene and Eileen arrived on this day and unfortunately because of weather we couldn’t make a group dinner work.  The ladies sprung into action though and put together a chili, salad, and cornbread meal for them.  I was working during all of this and it was so nice that they took care of making sure they were fed.  Since Gene and Eileen drove through the storm, it took longer than they expected and they were really tired. Everyone came to greet them and bring them the food and since I didn’t make anything offered to walk their dog Max.  I have missed Gene and Eileen, but I was most excited about Max.  I know Hobie is going to get a little jealous but he will just have to learn to share me with other dogs.

Double rainbow from the tropical storm

Double rainbow from the tropical storm

Hobie making himself at home on our desk. I can't beleive Lee let him up here

Hobie making himself at home on our desk. Can’t believe Lee let him up.

For weeks I have been walking the beach and collecting shells with the vague idea of making a shell picture frame and putting a picture of the gang in it.  A couple of weeks ago, Cori and I bought a couple little glue guns and some cheapie picture frames at the Dollar General.  The weekends and nights though have been taken up with lots of activities and with the driving classes being staggered I didn’t think we would have the opportunity to all get together for a girl’s night.  Cori though proved once again why she is such a great friend to me and quietly got everyone together so we could have craft night.  It was really sweet and a lot of fun.  We all got to be together, talk, and drink a little wine.  That’s what I love most about Cori..in very quiet ways she goes to some trouble to make people happy and if you mention it she always denies it’s a big thing.  She also happens to be an excellent shell picture frame maker and by general consensus hers looked the best.  Lee said, “No offense, but Cori’s looks like it could be sold in a shop.”

Sue

Sue

Me

Me

Kelly

Kelly

Jo

Jo

Eileen

Eileen

Cori is the winner!!!

Cori is the winner!!!

 

Since I had driving class on Sunday the rig has been a bit of a mess, plus the guys are finishing up our solar install so I am working at the kitchen table to try to stay out of their way.  During lunch I got to take both Hobie and Max with me to the beach.  I’ve been wanting those guys together for the last three weeks and Sue was happy to come with to help me get some pictures.  There were a ton of college aged kids on the beach and it was a beautiful day, although a bit  windy.   It was a great 1/2 hour and I finally got the pics I have been looking for.  It’s neat how they look similar but have somewhat different coloring.  They are both cavachon’s and I think Max looks more Bichon whereas Hobie seems more Cavalier.  Can you tell I am totally obsessed with these dogs?

Me working at my table

Me working at my table

 

Sue on the beach

Sue on the beach

Max says he's not getting enough screen time and wanted a solo pic

Max says he’s not getting enough screen time and wanted a solo pic

Couldn't get both kids to look at me at the same time, like getting a picture with a couple two year olds.

Couldn’t get both kids to look at me at the same time, like getting a picture with a couple two-year olds. Hobie on the left and Max on the right

Tuesday night we had a group dinner of Lasagna (made my Kelly) and home-made Caesar salads prepared by Lee.  Lee’s first job was making Caesar salad’s tableside at a fancy restaurant and when Kelly got wind of that a plan was born.  Also, Diane and Glyn talked to us about Alaska which was incredibly helpful.  There are tons of urban legends about RV’ing to Alaska and they were very helpful in dispelling most of them.  You don’t need an extra gas tank for example to visit the commonly traveled areas and you can use some flexibility when booking campgrounds along the way.  I highly recommend talking to someone who actually lived there before making a trip as they truly can tell you what the area is like. One of the funniest things that happened all night was Lee was playing ball with Hobie and Max.  Max is really good at catching the ball on the bounce and apparently Hobie got a little upset because the first opportunity he had he lifted his leg and peed on the ball.  It was if he was saying, “I’ll show you Max.”  So funny and we laughed until we cried.  The look on Cori’s face was priceless when her “kid” misbehaved.  Loved it!!!

 

Lee making Caesars

Lee making Caesars

Diane and Jo looking at Alaska pictures

Diane and Jo looking at Alaska pictures

Gene, Eileen, and Gene's 91 year old mom Rose

Gene, Eileen, and Gene’s 91-year-old mom Rose

Glyn and Guy looking at Alaska pictures

Glyn and Guy looking at Alaska pictures

Guy went and put this hat on. Totally cracked me up

Guy went and put this hat on. Totally cracked me up

 

 

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Puppies playing ball

Puppies playing ball

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Laci Lou wanted to get in on the action

Laci Lou wanted to get in on the action

Wednesday we finally got to go kayaking.  This was the one thing Cori wanted to do and because of work schedules, other activities, and weather it kept getting pushed.  So we were going no matter what and we had 4 couples who had boats. Although the tide was very low and we had to do some walking in spots, we had a great time. I also got some cool black and white shots of an abandoned bridge. Then we went to a local bar, Watermen’s  and watched the sunset and ate some dinner.  The food was delicious and the company was great.  For the first time Lee and I shared a meal.  (He’s not a hug fan of sharing his food!) We got stuffed mushrooms and prime rib all for $36 before tip.  There was plenty to eat for both of us and I think we will definitely try this approach again.

All our boats in a line

All our boats in a line

Gene and Eileen and Sue and Guy

Gene and Eileen and Sue and Guy

Love this picture of Cori and Greg. Cori is the queen of multitasking

Love this picture of Cori and Greg. Cori is the queen of multitasking

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Really pretty views

Really pretty views

Lee and Gene pulling the boats along

Lee and Gene pulling the boats along

 

 

 

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View from the restaurant

View from the restaurant

Beautiful sunset

Beautiful sunset

Lee, Greg. and Cori

Lee, Greg. and Cori

From Left: Greg, Sue, Eileen, me, Lee, Gene, Cori, and Guy

From Left: Greg, Sue, Eileen, me, Lee, Gene, Cori, and Guy

Our last night in OBX we celebrated Greg’s birthday and had our last fire on the beach.  IT was a wonderful night and a great way to cap off a great month with people we love.  It’s bittersweet to be leaving because we really like it here and have had a great time on the road..but can’t wait to see my sister and get to the reunion rally.

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With trick candles of course!!

With trick candles of course!!

Cori got Greg a Security T-Shirt ..so now it's offical

Cori got Greg a Security T-Shirt ..so now it’s offical

Front row: Rose, Guy. Sue, Cori, Hobie, me, Lee, Kelly, Bill, Jo Back row: Eileen, Gene, Glyn, Greg, Diane, Craig

Front row: Rose, Guy. Sue, Cori, Hobie, me, Lee, Kelly, Bill, and Jo.  Back row: Eileen, Gene, Glyn, Greg, Diane, Craig

Class of 2014

Some members of Dreamers Class of 2014

Lessons Learned

  • Do not let the ocean cover your beach fire when you are sitting near it because it could cause a steam explosion. 
  • An RV class is a terrific idea, but to make the most of your experience be very clear with the instructor on what your concerns are so he can provide a custom program.
  • Crafts can be a fun and inexpensive way of spending time.  Adding a little wine only makes it better!!
  • Before RV’ing to Alaska talk to someone who has spent a lot of time there or better yet lived there.  There is a ton of misinformation on the internet.  Big shock right 🙂
  • When Kayaking in the ocean sound check the tide levels

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First Time in Ocracoke

Sunday we went to Ocracoke Island which is a small town with lots of cool shops and restaurants.  The only downside is we had to take a ferry which in off-season only runs on the hour one way and the half hour the other way.  I have never been on a ferry with cars…was always a little scared to be honest but it was the only way to get there so we piled into three cars and left at 8am on Sunday morning.  Going out wasn’t so bad.  The small ferry we were on wasn’t full of cars and you can go on the observation deck and get some cool pictures.  We had a nice day walking the town and eating lunch, but coming back there were tons of cars waiting for the 3:30pm ferry and we actually had to wait an entire hour for the next one to come.  Not only did we have to wait, but Lee and I in the trailing car were second to last on the boat and up until the last-minute I was convinced we weren’t going to make it.  So, I do recommend seeing it at least once, but if you can go during the week I would and give yourself extra time to get back.  The waiting area is along the shore so you can walk the beach a bit, but an hour wait in the hot sun is obviously not optimal.  Other than that though was a great day and I will let the pictures speak for themselves.

 

The first mammal I have seen on the island. We stopped on the side of the road and took some pictures

The first mammal I have seen on the island. We stopped on the side of the road and took some pictures

The gang waiting on the ferry

The gang waiting for the ferry

The loading area for the ferry

The loading area for the ferry

 

 

 

 

 

 

We realized all the couples were color coordinated except for us and Guy and Sue...so we switched partners for the pics

We realized all the couples were color coordinated except for us and Guy and Sue…so we switched partners for the pics

Beautiful houses along the shore

Beautiful houses along the shore

View from the ferry

View from the ferry

Ferry

Ferry

Ferry we passed coming the other way

Ferry we passed coming the other way

 

 

We stopped and saw some "wild" ponies. They are descendants of the original wild beach horses

We stopped and saw some “wild” ponies. They are descendants of the original wild beach horses

Beautiful views

Beautiful views

Cori found this bunny on a path near the horses

Cori found this bunny on a path near the horses

He posed for us

He posed for us

Nature scultpure

Nature sculpture

Craig was talking to the woman in the wheelchair so didn't wave. He's a sweetie like that

Craig was talking to the woman in the wheelchair so didn’t wave. He’s a sweetie like that

 

Our lunch place on the water

Our lunch place on the water

View from the restaurant

View from the restaurant

 

Sue and I loved this little pig statue but it doesn't do two things

Sue and I loved this little pig statue but it doesn’t do two things

Lovely little cottage on the harbor

Lovely little cottage on the harbor

 

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Lots of little houses/shops like this

Lots of little houses/shops like this

The Ocracoke lighthouse

The Ocracoke lighthouse

Loved this twisty tree

Loved this twisty tree

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Proof that we were the second to last car that got on the ferry back

Proof that we were the second to last car that got on the ferry

This Class A took the ride...they really know how to park the cars to get the most on the ferry

This Class A took the ride…they really know how to park the cars to get the most on the ferry

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So it was a lovely day and we had a very nice week.  On a side note, I think I like this communal living.  The other day Kelly made the guys breakfast, I walked Cori’s dog, and Cori made lunch.  The saying “many hands make light work” does apply to some extent with a large group of people and it elevates the more mundane chores to something fun when you can do it with your friends. We had several group dinners including  Monday’s “grill your own” night which ended with us all watching the Full Flower Moon rise.  I have never seen a moonrise before and it was so beautiful.  Truly the picture does not do it justice and if you ever have a chance to watch one on the ocean I highly recommend it.  Tuesday was Cinco De Mayo and Greg fixed three kinds of tacos with Bill providing margaritas.

As Bill says, "Moonrise is underrated"

As Bill says, “Moonrise is underrated”

Guy pulled out some 20 year port. Bill our bartender approved

Guy pulled out some 20 year port and Bill our bartender approved

A man and his dog

A man and his dog

 

Wednesday night I needed a break!! I definitely need to work on my stamina as some folks are putting me to shame.  Lee and I ate pot pies, stayed in and watched some TV.  Thursday night was date night and the couples were spending some quality time.  Some went to dinner alone, others paired up.  We went to Jockey Ridge State Park which is a MUST DO in this area.  Totally free you walk up a very long sand dune (takes about 20 minutes so give yourself ample time) and watched an amazing sunset.  So far in this lifestyle all of my favorite things have cost $10 or less and this was right up there with my all time favorites.

The dunes walking up to the ridge

The dunes walking up to the ridge

Lee in the expanse. He felt like Lawrence of Arabia

Lee in the expanse. He felt like Lawrence of Arabia

It is a steep climb up the hill so where the right shoes. My dinner sandals were not the best pick

It is a steep climb up the hill so wear the right shoes. My dinner sandals were not the best pick

Beautiful views along the way

Beautiful views along the way

Sometimes I am amazed this is my life

Sometimes I am amazed this is my life

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A little smooching on the dune.

A little smooching on the dune.

 

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The clouds were so cool and this is not color enhanced

The clouds were so cool and this is not color enhanced

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I think everyone missed each other, though we ended up all meeting up at a local Karaoke bar.   I had mentioned on Tuesday  Lee has a wonderful voice and can sing Sinatra so Cori (the rabble rouser) organized the whole group (via text) to meet up at the karaoke bar and talked Lee into singing.  I used to be terrified of singing in public and have never ever done it at a bar, but Kelly wanted to sing and since she conquered her fears at the Adventure Course with me I thought it was the least I could do for her.  Turns out it was a ton of fun.  I wasn’t nervous at all with Kelly standing there, and I was even totally sober!!  As the evening wore on though things got a little on the rough side.  Lots of locals hang out here and there were many hard-working fisherman singing.  At first it was fun, but when one guy changed the lyrics of the song to, “All you tourists, we will kick your ass” we all decided it might be a good time to leave.  I get it, these folks live here and people come in and act like they own the place, but we were just trying to have a good time.  Anyway, I absolutely recommend singing in a karaoke bar, just not this particular one.

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Lee and Kelly looking over the song list

Lee and Kelly looking over the song list

Craig and Guy

Craig and Guy

 

 

 

 

 

 

Lee singing "Summer Wind" by the Chairman of the Board

Lee singing “Summer Wind” by the Chairman of the Board

 

And yes here’s the video of Kelly and I singing.  Quality is not great but you can tell we were having a really good time.  Need to stop for now as we have another big weekend planned.  Who knew I would have so much to blog about!!

 

 

Day 4 of the Black and White Photo Challenge

I was challenged to take black and white photo’s for  5 consecutive blog posts for the Black and White Photo challenge.  I would like to nominate Kelly Murray to participate in the challenge.   This week’s picture was taken on the island of Ocracoke.  It was a tough choice but these statues remind me of my mother-in-law’s garden and I love how the boats in the background are slightly blurred.

Winner Day 4

Winner Day 4

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Recipe

Satay Pork

This was such a pleasant surprise.  Easy to make and absolutely delicious.  Several people tried it and really liked it. 

  • 3# boneless pork cut into strips
  • 1/2 cup vegetable oil
  • 1/4 cup soy sauce
  • 2 TBL chopped peanuts
  • 1 TBL Worcestershire Sauce
  • 1 TBL chopped onion
  • 2 cloves garlic; crushed
  • 2 tsp brown sugar
  • 1/4 tsp curry powder
  • Skewers
  1. Combine all ingredients except chicken; blend well
  2. Marinate pork for 1-2 hours; stir occasionally
  3. Drain pork; reserve marinade
  4. Thread pork onto skewers in a S pattern
  5. Grill kabobs on an uncovered grill for 5-6 minutes turning frequently and marinating often
  6. Serve
Satay Pork

Satay Pork

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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April 2015 Budget

I made some changes to the budget this month.  We have been struggling with how to show prepaid campground fees.  We are prepaying more often than we originally thought we would, and having the costs show up in the month we prepay instead of the month they will occur doesn’t show a completely accurate picture.  Craig (who used to run his own small business) made an excellent suggestion.  We have a $1,000 campground fund set aside now in a separate bank account and when we prepay we take the money from that account and then pay it back in the month we stay at the campground.  This solves the cash flow issue I was concerned about and allows us to register the costs in the month we take the benefit.  I have gone back and changed some categories over the last few months so that the annual totals are correct.  I am not going to go back and change the posts for the first few months.  There are limits to the amount of work I am willing to put in on this!

A couple of other things I wanted to mention before I get into the details of how we did.  I really am astounded by how much our communication regarding money has improved over the last few months.  We not only review how we are doing twice a month, but have constructive conversations around our expenses.  The change in our relationship in this area is such an incredible side benefit to this lifestyle.  So I would recommend budgeting even if you are in a position where you don’t need to closely track your costs.  It’s good to know what you are spending your money on in any lifestyle, but especially when full timing because the costs are quite different from a traditional “sticks and bricks” lifestyle.

We ran a little over this month, but considering the amount of fun we have had it was well worth it.  The overage was predominantly all of the one time Florida registration/drivers license fees.  We also had to scramble to change some campground reservations when we had to extend our St. Augustine visit for an extra week.  Unfortunately this led to losing the deposit at Skidaway (time frame too short for a refund), but surprisingly we actually were under in the campground category for the month.  The grocery category was over by $126 (not surprising with all the group meals we have been doing), but we gained some of that back by being under in the dining out category.  As a side note I really appreciate the group understanding we are tightly budgeted and not pressuring us to go out to eat frequently.  People offer but are totally fine with us declining and they have been very accommodating about eating out as a lunch instead of the more expensive dinner. 

Once again we are over in the Home Improvement category, but since Lee did some customization on our windows so they push out farther and we get a nicer breeze it’s hard for me to complain.  We also spent $213 for the vinyl lettering on our rig.  I put this money in Miscellaneous rather than home improvement because, well, I wanted to.  Have to say I adore the lettering, Lee did an excellent job, and I would spend that money again in a second.  Another side note: I already have a new blog follower because she saw the lettering on our RV at Ocean Waves, read the blog, and liked it!!!  

 

April 2015 Budget

April 2015 Budget

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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First Time at an Adventure Park

A couple of months ago we made the plans to come to OBX, and opened it up to anyone who had extra time before the RV-Dreams reunion rally.  Everyone’s schedule was very different and although 8 of us were available for the whole month, others were going to try to come for just part of the time.  I’ve been really excited about seeing Guy and Sue, because I haven’t seen them since we all met a year ago and they had the longest delayed “launch” of any couple.  They have been waiting for their house to sell this entire time and Guy continued working and Sue continued hoping through the long winter.  Finally Guy’s doctor said the time had come to retire, and they decided they had waited long enough.  So the last couple of months they have been traveling, visiting family, and getting used to the lifestyle, and they decided to reroute their plans and spend a couple of weeks here in OBX with us.  All I can say about Sue is that in a room full of interesting people, she stood out. She has this great energy she carries with her and I can’t wait to compare notes on how things have been going over the last year. Here’s my favorite pic of Sue from the Rally (it was Kentucky Derby night) and seriously anyone who has access to a hat like this let alone can pull it off is someone I want to hang out with.

Sue...really the picture says it all

Sue…really the picture says it all

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Sue and Guy are also taking advantage of this time to add a solar system onto their rig, and who better to do it than our friend Greg, owner of  RV Solar Solutions.  Lee’s going to be taking some video of the entire process so Greg will have some videos to use for his website.  It was a great week, but I am getting ahead of myself a little and should start back at the beginning. 

Sunday was a rainy day.  Actually we had several rainy days in a row.  We all love being here during the “shoulder season” because the crowds are minimal and the weather is beautiful on many days, but we did have a string of rainy/cloudy days this week.  So I decided to go looking for a mother’s dress for my daughter’s upcoming wedding, threw it out to the group, and Kelly came with me.  One of the many great things about Kelly is that she’s up for almost anything.  We had a nice afternoon in Duck, NC going into small boutique shops and talking.  Kelly is a really nice person.  She didn’t mind the cold or the hour drive each way, she was just happy to help out a friend.  Although we didn’t find anything, I did get some ideas and it was nice to see the Duck area which is where many of the wealthier people live in OBX.  Worth the drive just to see some of the houses.  Crazy money though…we saw a small inland lot (no house on it) for example for $299K.  We also stopped at First Flight Adventure Course on the way back and Kelly and I both decided we wanted to do it so we scheduled some time the following Saturday…but more of that later.

Work was pretty busy this week so long days in the rig, but every night we joined together for appetizers, drinks, and sometimes dinner.  Cori took on coordinating the food schedule (God love her) and it’s turned into more of a challenge than any of us thought.  We have a calendar schedule, but then the girls have to talk about it every night to make sure we have the basics covered.  Otherwise you end up with all vegetables and no meat or vice versa.  Plus since the grocery store is so far away, we need to pre-plan a bit to have the ingredients we need.  It’s a bit of a pain, but the dinners themselves are so fun we don’t want to stop doing it.  I actually think it would be much easier with more or less people.  With 4 you split it in half and with a larger group there are plenty of dishes so less coordination needed.  Even on Bring your Own Grill night we are coordinating the sides somewhat so like I said it takes more coordination than I think anyone counted on.  Still I love it personally. Cori did divide the schedule up with some “On Your Own” nights which is great.  Each couple can go out to dinner, or eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich if they want to and that has given us an opportunity to break up into smaller groups, which is nice for some deeper conversations.

So Sunday night we hung out with Cori and Greg and then Monday night with Bill and Kelly.  Tuesday we all celebrated meeting each other at the Sevierville rally with appetizers and a potluck followed by an excellent fire on the beach and Jo’s famous Cinnamon rolls for a late dessert. Jo even sent Howard and Linda from RV-Dreams a picture of all of us waving on our one year anniversary which was pretty neat since they are right now back in Sevierville with a whole new group.

 

Anniversary Potluck

Anniversary Potluck

So nice to see Cori having such a good time

Cori having a really good time..the stress is melting off her 🙂

Craig eating one of Bill's excellent chicken wings while Hobie stares hopefully

Craig eating one of Bill’s excellent chicken wings while Hobie stares hopefully

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Craig's fire was art

Craig’s fire was art

Lee, Craig, Jo. and Kelly

Lee, Craig, Jo. and Kelly

Lee loves the fire

Lee loves the fire

This is not as dangerous as it looks :)

This is not as dangerous as it looks

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Really nice fire

Really nice fire

 

Jo's excellent Splenda Cinnamon Rolls

Jo’s excellent Splenda Cinnamon Rolls

 

The week was going great and then Sue said they had rearranged some things and would be in OBX on Thursday!!!  Very cool.  We scrambled a bit to have a travel day dinner for them.  One of my favorite RV etiquette rules is that you cook for whomever is visiting you on their travel day since travel days are so crazy. Nothing fancy, just hot and filling food since travel days also require some physical activity.  Cori volunteered to make her shredded pork since she had pork loin in her freezer (I am seriously jealous of her residential refrigerator) and the rest of us pitched in.

I went to  Urgent Care for the first time ever, for a sustained earache, and it turned out it was from a flight I took with a bad head cold a few weeks ago and should resolve itself over time.  It was OK.  The wait was about an hour but the doctor and nurse were nice and there was no issue taking my insurance.  Lee went to get the oil changed on my car, and to the dentist for a routine cleaning, and did not have such a good experience.  Even though they said they could get him in right away he waited 1-1/2 hours for a 10 minute oil change.  Not great, but we are limited in the places we can go because of my fleet coverage, and there are no chain oil change places to be found in the Outer Banks.  The dentist was worse.  There was only one Aetna choice, Michael Morgan, DDS in Kitty Hawk.  I was placed on hold when making the appointment for 8-1/2 minutes but was thrilled that they had an appointment at 10am on Thursday for the cleaning.  Lee said the office had older equipment, but the cleaning and exam seemed competent.  The problem is when he went to leave they demanded he pay for the cleaning even though he had the insurance card and it’s covered by insurance.  Then they stated it would be $130 but when he pulled out our HSA medical Visa they immediately changed the amount to $75.  NOT cool.  I ended up calling Aetna and registering a complaint.  Not so much because of the $75 but more because of the principle of the thing.  I have had wonderful experiences with Aetna over the years and frankly expect more from their in-house providers.

So Lee and I were both pretty cranky when Sue and Guy rolled in, but just seeing them was so exciting I had to give her a huge hug.  They had a tough morning having gotten stuck in the mud at a campsite earlier, and were super relieved to be here.  We tried to give them some time to settle but everyone was so excited to see them it was tough not to converge on them.  So we met around 5pm for dinner and drinks and the meal was hot and filling.  Cori makes awesome pulled pork!  Then we sat outside (eventually moving into Cori and Greg’s party bus) and we talked and laughed and laughed until 9pm.  At one point Cori and I tried to have a little meeting to talk about what was happening the next few days but that got out of hand quickly.  Lee is a complete rabble rouser and made the whole crowd VERY unruly. Eventually though we got through it and to share the schedule I will put it below.  It’s important to note that any person or couple has the right to opt out of anything at any time…and it may seem like over-scheduling but with work schedules and so many people I don’t know a better way to do it.  So here’s the email I sent out.  As a side note I was trying to find some time to talk to my daughter about her wedding plans and when I was going through the schedule she said ,”Are you at camp?”  My reply, “Yes honey, adult camp with lots of booze thrown in!!”

  • Friday night – Lee is making chicken, I am making green beans, Kelly is making REAL mashed potatoes, and Cori is making desert.  Sue is organizing a game.
  • Saturday morning around 9 am – Kelly is making breakfast with Cori’s assist
  • Saturday afternoon leaving for the Adventure Park at noon
  • Saturday Night – Derby Night.  Cori has sliders, Sue has Black Bean dip (so my husband will hush about it), I have deviled eggs and stuffed cherry tomatoes, Kelly and Jo are still deciding.  Cori is organizing a game
  • Sunday leave for Ocracoke Ferry at 8am.  Lunch is on the island and then everyone on their own for dinner
  • Monday is grill your own meat night…sometimes we like to coordinate sides for this but it’s hard …maybe everyone brings their own sides this time???
  • Tuesday is Cinco de Mayo with Jo and Greg providing the food and Lee and Guy providing the music (just kidding on the last part, although I would like to see Lee actually hold the guitar at least.  Bill is making margaritas!!
  • Weds is on your own.

Friday night was fun.  Lee’s chicken was a resounding success and even though it was cold and rainy, Cori and Greg opened their rig for us all to eat inside.  We brought over several folding tables and the 10 of us fit quite comfortably for the dinner and the game we played after.  I am pretty sure Sue’s job will be Master of Games because we played Left, Right, Center which is a very simple dice game that had a “gambling” element that made it very fun.  You start with three quarters and roll the number of dice for the number of quarters you have left.  Your quarters get passed to the left or right, or stay with you or go in the center pot depending upon what you roll.  So there’s lots of trading back and forth of quarters and basically whoever has the last quarter wins what is in the pot.  I think there was $7 on the table but some competitive spirits came out and it was easy and a lot of fun.  The coolest thing about the game is because it’s simple it doesn’t take a ton of mental attention so you can keep the conversation flowing and still play.

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Playing Left Right Center..I think Greg is winning

Playing Left Right Center..I think Greg is winning

 

I think we were all pretty sick of the rain by this point, but the forecast calls for beautiful weather the rest of the week and Kelly, Lee, and I were all excited about the First Flight Adventure Course on Saturday.  To start the day, Kelly made a breakfast of biscuits and gravy which is Lee’s absolute favorite.  I don’t care for it so rarely make it, but my Mom used to make it for him every Christmas we were together. It was awesome, she and Cori put on quite a spread. Then we left to go to the adventure park.  It was an absolutely phenomenal experience and worth every penny of the $49 it cost.  I’m going to walk you through it step by step though because I truly hope if you have a chance to do this or something similar you do.  What you don’t see in the pictures is Bill (Kelly’s husband) who had done something similar about 10 years ago and agreed to take our pictures.  He did an outstanding job, especially considering he had to stay outside the action zone a hundred yards away, and shoot through lots of rope and cable and other obstacles. Lee and I are really grateful that he was there to capture the moment.

First we got in and signed releases, were weighed (250# limit and they weigh you on site) and then got suited up.  A huge group of kids came along with girls from a bachelorette party, but it’s such a large course it really didn’t feel crowded.  The course is divided into three height sections with two courses per height.  The higher you go the harder it is and you can stop at any time or use your two-hour block to repeat courses you liked.  The staff was fantastic… adult, competent, and extremely encouraging.

Kelly is a little nervous

Kelly is a little nervous

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Kelly getying pysched up

Kelly getting pysched up

Me, Lee, amd Kelly outside the course

Me, Lee, and Kelly outside the course

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It is a requirement that each person complete one of the lowest level courses and then you can go to any level you like.  We let the young kids go first and watched a bit and then tackled the first course.  Kelly was tentative at first, but we had her go after me and before Lee and she soon got the hang of it.  We were all really encouraging of each other and helped each other along.  Every course has both a physical and mental component.  There is a “trick” to making them easier and we definitely learned from each others successes and “oopses”.  This would be a great place to conduct a team building exercise as the three of us totally bonded on that course.  It was very cool.

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After the initial run we all started to get more confidence and the smiles started to come out.  Don’t get me wrong there were some tough ones in there, but we all started to really enjoy ourselves and after 1 and 2 we moved up to the second level and challenges 3 and 4.

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You have to stop periodically and keep your tether in front of you which can be a challenge if you need two hands

You have to stop periodically and keep your tether in front of you which can be a challenge if you need two hands

Going a little to fast

Going a little too fast

Ooops got a little cocky

Ooops got a little cocky

Lee strolling across the tight wire

Kelly strolling across the tight wire

 

I had a hard time with this one but Lee and Kelly did great

I had a hard time with the fish one but Lee and Kelly did great

This was my favorite one...the bachlorettes were scared of it and I said "Hey two 50 year old women are doing this " A couple tried it after that

This was my favorite one…the bachelorettes were scared of it and I said “Hey, two 50 year old women are doing this ” A couple of the girls tried it after that

Look at Kelly moving with authority so awesome

Look at Kelly moving with authority so awesome

 

 

Lee's rocking it

Lee’s rocking it

 

 

At the end of every challenge you got to zip line back to the center as a reward

At the end of every challenge you got to zip line back to the center as a reward

 

 

These barrels look easier than they were

These barrels look easier than they were

I was all excited about the boat until I got on it

I was all excited about the boat until I got on it

Standing is NOT recommended

Standing is NOT recommended

Kelly learned from my mistake and sailed right through

Kelly learned from my mistake and sailed right through

 

 

My least favorite of the 2nd level challenges

My least favorite of the 2nd level challenges

Holding on for dear life

Holding on for dear life

 

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These were super wobbly but fun I giggled through the whole thing

These were super wobbly but fun I giggled through the whole thing

So we finished 1-4 and Lee and Kelly (who are smart) decided they were done.  I thought I would like to go up and try #5.  I would say if I did this again I would either stop at 4 or try 5 earlier in session as I was getting tired and the highest level was MUCH harder.

I got across these but my tether was on the wrong side and had to untangle myself. Not easy on a spinning loop

I got across these but my tether was on the wrong side and had to untangle myself. Not easy on a spinning loop

These weren't so bad ..you had to swing from one to another just required some coordination

These weren’t so bad ..you had to swing from one to another just required some coordination

The first two obstacles were hard but the third was brutal.  It required a commando crawl across a rope.  I am familiar with how to do it…every military movie shows it and I thought of my daughter in the Air Force and decided to give it a go.  Unfortunately for the first time height came into play as you are staring straight down, plus I ran out of arm strength 2/3 of the way through and had to use my legs to scootch the rest of the way.  I am proud of myself for doing it, but I was really scared and had to take a minute to compose myself.  I was facing away from Kelly and Lee but forgot Bill was on the ground taking pics.  Still these really do capture how I was feeling in that moment.

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So I am halfway across and Lee told me later Kelly asked him if he thought I would quit.  Lee said, “Not a chance in hell.”  Which is incredibly sweet but I probably would have if there was an easy way to get down.  But it was back or forward, and given those choices I will always pick forward so I took a breath and kept going.  Kelly and Lee talked me through the next one, because the center platform tilts sideways so you have to keep perfectly center or you’re going to get dropped some.  I understand it’s mainly mental…you are on a guide wire after all, but it’s still scary when you drop.

 

Started ok

Started ok

Caught up

Caught up

Not looking good

Not looking good

Yelled "Made It Bill" and he yelled back "Wait till you see the next one

Yelled “Made It Bill” and he yelled back “Wait till you see the next one

I blew him a kiss rather than the alternative of flipping him off :)

I blew him a kiss rather than the alternative of flipping him off which I seriously considered 🙂

Lee and Kelly looking on

Lee and Kelly looking on

The 2nd to last one was designed by a sadist because the things you put your feet on roll under you. Finnally I said screw it and sat on one and then moved my butt from one to another which was still not easy but at least possible.  The last one had rings to use to pull yourself across which I flat out couldn’t do so I glided down to the next platform instead.  Overall I am glad I tried but I think I’ll take credit for completing  4-1/2 courses.  Still keep in mind you can stop at any level you want and go back and redo your favorites.  We still had 20 minutes left on our time, but we were all pooped out so decided to stop.  It was an amazing experience and I am so glad I got to do it.

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Thanks heavens I'm done

Thanks heavens I’m done

And if that wasn’t enough Cori organized a Derby party for Saturday night.  We all made appetizers and had a nice time watching the race on Cori and Greg’s outside TV.  Tomorrow is Ocracoke with the group…but we will have to save that for next week’s post.

Derby Party

Derby Party

Day 3 of the Black and White Photography Challenge

The Black and White Challenge asks bloggers to post 5 consecutive blogs with a black and white photo.  I recommend my long time friend Ted Julian to take up the challenge since he is a new blogger who is writing about his camping experiences with his wife and young kids.  This week, Lee taught me about shadows and encouraged me to take the same pictures at different times of the day to get different shadow effects.  This was taken in the evening and I really like how it turned out.

 

Winner Day Three of the Black and White Photo Challenge

Day Three of the Black and White Photo Challenge

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Changing Relationships

So here I am on Monday morning, awake at 3am…not sure why I can’t sleep…I’m not upset or anything, but I woke up with a thought and I felt I wanted to use the time to write about it.  The thought was that you could take your current relationship and plop it into an RV and live your life or you could use this lifestyle as a catalyst for change.  Any couple that is solid and stable enough to stay the same through this process, more power to you, but we are finding that the change in scenery is  also changing our relationship. The thought doesn’t upset me, and despite the evidence to the contrary it doesn’t keep me up at night, because as Lee says, the change is an organic one and at least for us it’s part of this whole process.  We started all of this by recognizing that being empty nesters was barreling down on us and we needed to make some changes as a couple to survive that.  I’m serious about that…despite being married for 25 years, knowing each other since we were 14 and 16, and truly liking each other, we both saw the handwriting on the wall so to speak that because we had drifted apart if we didn’t take steps to remedy that we would eventually be in trouble.  Neither of us are people who settle in life.  We both want and even demand high levels of quality in our relationships, each other, our work situations, our children etc.  It doesn’t make us easy people and we certainly weren’t easy parents, but I think that this desire for excellence comes from the right place.   We want to be better and have always demanded as much from ourselves as we have from others.

So we knew we would never be the couple that stay married and just sort of tolerate each other.  I can see how people drift into that, though.  Once the kids are gone and financial pressure lessens, and life in general gets easier, it’s nice, and you don’t want to rock the boat.  You relax a bit, get complacent, and then next thing you know you stop working at your relationship.  As all things without change, the marriage gets stagnant and ultimately the people themselves get stagnant or they go looking outside the marriage for what they are not finding within it.  We’ve all seen it and many of us have experienced it, so Lee and I were acutely aware of what could happen and decided in advance we wanted to do what we could to head it off at the pass. There are lots of reasons people start full-time RVing.  The desire for adventure, wanting to live with less rules, the need for simplicity in their life, there are a myriad of reasons.  But for me the absolute number one reason was a desire to strengthen my marriage.  Let me be absolutely clear here…we were not in trouble.  Things were good, probably better than they have ever been for us, but as I said I could see down the path of what could be and since absolutely nothing is more important to me than my relationship with my husband, I wanted to do everything I could to give us the best chance possible.

It’s interesting because this lifestyle was a huge risk.  It has put levels of pressure on our marriage that we haven’t felt since we were very young adults with babies, but that pressure feels to me like the pressure needed to make a diamond.  For those of you going through it, you’ll get it, but let me try to explain: You take two people who love each other, are friends, and have known each other for a long time.  You take most of their stuff away from them, put them in a 400 square foot box, and make them live together while changing their exterior environment frequently.  Wow. Put that way it sounds like a reality show.  But stripped down to its basics that is really what we are doing here.  Yes, we get to see amazing places, yes we are checking bucket list items off left and right, but when those things aren’t happening we are living our regular day-to-day life and the rules above apply. So the rewards are amazing but it can be extremely hard.  But as Lee and I often remind ourselves, nothing in our life that was ever worth anything came without a cost.  To quote Tom Hanks from the movie A League of Their Own, “It’s supposed to be hard.  If it wasn’t hard everyone would do it. The hard is what makes it great.”

It has been hard on our relationship these last few months but it’s also been great for our relationship.  We are talking more to each other than we have since we were young together and trying to figure it all out.  We are challenging each other to be better. And most importantly we are loving each other more deeply. So respectfully, for those couples who have taken their old relationship and plopped it into this new life intact,  you might be missing out on a great opportunity here.  It’s scary to mess with something that matters so much and tough to meddle, especially when it isn’t broken, but the reward in this case (in my opinion) is well worth the risk.

Day 2 of the Black and White Photography Challenge

I am participating in the Black and White Blog photography challenge where every post for 5 posts I am showing a black and white photo along with nominating a friend to also participate.  Today I nominate Cori Young, my very good friend who has a new camera and a new blog to take up the challenge.

I'm really enjoying taking these black and white photos

I’m really enjoying taking these black and white photos.  Lee said this was his favorite because it told a story

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Recipes

Stir Fry Rice Noodles with Pork

Since my trip to the Asian Market I have been trying different recipes.  We tried three different recipes with rice-stick noodles and this was definitely the winner.  It’s not that difficult (as these recipes go) and the flavor was super yummy.

  • 8 oz rice-stick noodles
  • 4 TBL vegetable oil
  • 4 cloves garlic (minced)
  • 1 pound thinly slice lean pork
  • 4 TBL soy sauce (separate)
  • 1 (10 0z) can chicken broth
  • 16 oz shredded cabbage (you can use the bags in the grocery store pre-cut for cole slaw)
  • 1/2 cup finely shredded carrot
  • 4 green onions (finely chopped with greens separated from white part)
  • 1/4 tsp freshly ground pepper
  1.  Soak rice stick in a bowl fully covered with water for 30 minutes then drain well
  2. Heat a wok over high heat; Add oil and heat until lightly bubbling
  3. Add garlic, then pork and stir-fry for two minutes moving pork frequently
  4. Add 2 TBL soy sauce and stir fry two minutes longer or until pork absorbs most of sauce
  5. Add broth and 2 TBL soy sauce
  6. Stir in chopped cabbage, shredded carrot, and chopped green onion bottoms; Cover and cook for two minutes
  7. Add noodles and pepper; cook stirring for two minutes or until noodles absorb most of liquid
  8. Spoon onto platter and sprinkle with the white part of the chopped green onions
Stir Fried Rice Noodles with Pork

Stir Fried Rice Noodles with Pork

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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1st Week Black and White Photo Challenge

Deb challenged me to the black and white  photo challenge for blogs and I cheerfully accept…nominating Kyrston Perkins to accept the challenge as well.  The idea is, you post a black and white picture in your next five blog posts and since I am enjoying playing with my camera so much I was excited to try.  Lee and I have been having an epic philosophical discussion about Photoshop for several weeks, so there are actually two for today.  The first one I took in color and Lee Photoshopped it, and it does look amazing, but I don’t feel like I took this picture…it’s more like he created it.  It’s an awesome picture and as he said…it’s what I had in my head but I didn’t actually capture it. (The ‘shopping here was minimal. I think she should have included the original for comparison. All I did was change it from color to black and white, crop a little bit off the far right edge of the frame, because there was a pretty bright object that I don’t think she intended to include, and it really ruined the elegant slow graduation from bright on the left from natural light through a porthole to the darker interior of the ship on the right. I also tweaked the brightness and contrast a little to coax out that graduation a little more. – Lee)

 

The "tweaked" pic

The “tweaked” pic

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This one is one I like.  I did crop the edge a bit, which to me is no big deal but other than that the colors are as I took them using the black and white setting on the camera.  Heck, I was excited I found the black and white setting all by myself! So I don’t think I did too bad for my first time.

My "raw" pic

My “raw” pic

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So since Cori, Lee, and I are having this ongoing discussion I thought I would explain my viewpoint.   To me, photography is sort of the modern-day version of hunting.  You either make the shot or you don’t.  And yes, this way of thinking leads to many near misses which can be disappointing, but when you get that perfect shot it (and the sense of accomplishment) is yours forever.  Lee takes amazing pictures.   Some of the best ones you see in my blog are his, but that came from years and year of practice.  His pictures are GOOD and I want mine to be that good.  The only way I know to do that is to try and fail until I get it right.  If I can fix my mistakes easily then what is my motivation to really work hard and get better, plus how will I ever experience the moment of capturing the perfect shot.  So my personal lines at this point are cropping on the edges is ok…enhancing color is out and I really hate brushing things out of the middle of the picture.  The only exception would be a very rare photo with a combination of people in it. Just for the record I draw the line at photoshopping a person out.  That person was part of your life…own it.   I judge no one else, but for me pictures catalog your life and it is what it is  …good, bad..and ugly. I don’t want to sanitize or enhance my life.  (Luckily she doesn’t feel that way about personal hygiene. – Lee) Plus I really, really love that feeling of the perfectly capturing the moment. …But as I said, that’s just me. (Originally I completely disagreed with her on this. When I was a kid one of my idols was my uncle Gay, who was a pretty serious shutterbug, in addition to being an early adopter in the computer revolution, and a ham radio enthusiast. He also smoked a pipe, and wore hats. You just don’t see cool like that anymore. He was kind, and had a very dry sense of humor, and mostly treated me like a person instead of an obnoxious little kid, which is probably what I was most of the time. Most importantly, he didn’t pooh-pooh my dreams of chasing creative endeavors like lots of people. He took me seriously, so everything he taught me went straight into the middle of my brain and has stayed there ever since. One of the things he taught me was that every professional picture I had ever seen was the final choice from dozens, if not hundreds of shots that didn’t “make the cut”. And then that shot was cropped and tweaked and played with until it was as good as it could be. But I also agree with Tracy now as well. When she says “I want to get good, not cheat”, that makes sense too. – Lee)

This week in OBX started out great with our friends.  (Don’t get nervous, that’s not foreshadowing. It started great, and didn’t suddenly turn sour. It just continued to be great. Not as dramatic, but better in the long run. – Lee) We went down to the beach Monday night and had a lovely bonfire.  I haven’t done that since the kids were small, and it was so fun and the tide kept getting closer and closer and periodically we would all lift our feet to avoid a wave.  Totally awesome!!

The gang at the beach

The gang at the beach

We threw a huge piece of driftwood on the fire

We threw a huge piece of driftwood on the fire

Greg, Hobi, and Cori having a great time

Greg, Hobi, and Cori having a great time

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Cori had to travel for work Tuesday – Thursday and I had a ton of work to do myself, so aside from gathering in the evenings to eat together it was pretty event free.  I will say it has gotten cold this week (high 50’s in the evenings) and I wouldn’t mind that so much but the wind cuts right through you.  Since there are 8 of us..no one’s rig is really large enough to accommodate everyone for a meal so we are eating outside.  The food and company are great, but I can’t take the cold so many of the nights during the week ended early for me.  Friday night the weather was a little better and we had seafood night.  Kelly made her world-famous clam chowder (so good), (People, don’t let her lack of poetic prose mislead you, Kelly’s chowder is not just good, it is truly spectacular. There is nothing in the world like it. It tastes like the smiles of angels. A chorus of heavenly voices belts out “Hallelujah” when you lift your spoon from the bowl. – Lee) Then we made scallop skewers with bacon, pineapple, scallops, and mushrooms, and Cori made bacon wrapped shrimp.  Plus Cori, who is the Queen of appetizers, made this amazing crab dip.  It was a huge portion and was gone in no time.

Saturday morning I was up early and captured a beautiful sunrise.  It’s the nicest one I have seen in a while and when Lee woke up and saw I was gone he came down to the beach and joined me.  It was a very nice moment with just the two of us.

Sunrise on the beach with the sea grass I love

Sunrise on the beach with the sea grass I love

The cloud cutting across the sun was cool

The cloud cutting across the sun was cool

Lee had me take this shot...I love that when he sees a great pic for me he points it out but doesn't take over unless I ask

Lee had me take this shot…I love that when he sees a great pic for me he points it out but doesn’t take over unless I ask

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Saturday morning we decided to visit the Roanoke Island Festival Park .  It’s a  25-acre interactive historic site representing the first English settlement attempt in 1585.  Although we knew it might be cheesy, for $10 each it turned out to be a lot of fun.It was the second best interactive museum I have ever been to, for one thing.  The content was adult but the exhibits were interspersed with lots of great hands-on activities for kids. (Get your minds out of the gutter, it wasn’t THAT kind of adult, despite Greg’s best efforts. Well, one thing was, but this is a family blog, so you’ll just have to go there yourself to find it. We all laughed like twelve-year olds. – Lee) I would skip the movie though.  We watched all 45 minutes of it and I thought might actually expire from the production quality.  (The movie is truly awful. Not just garden-variety awful, but world-class awful. It was like the tears of angels, it was so awful. – Lee) The museum is indoor/outdoor with a Roanoke Indian village area, a replica of a ship the English brought to the Island, and the fort area.  They had some character actors in certain areas that were happy to answer any questions you had and really added to the experience.  Overall I highly recommend it (especially for a cloudy day) we all learned something and had fun, can’t ask for more than that. It was also a lot easier to visit with a large group than I thought it would be.  There is enough stuff to keep everyone interested without being right on top of each other. (OK, I’ll give you a hint: there’s a part in a little hut that has a row of little boxes, each with a native American word on a door, and when you open the door, you hear a recorded voice pronounce the word. One of them should never have made it past the censors. We opened that door about a million times. It was glorious. There were no children present, but I imagine that busloads of elementary school kids have rejoiced in discovering it over the years, much to the likely chagrin of their teachers and chaperones, who almost certainly hang back once the kids move on, and then repeatedly open the door, and laugh, and laugh. – Lee) 

In the parking lot outside having a nice chat

In the parking lot outside having a nice chat

The gift shop

The first building…loved the flowers

Y173

 

 

 

 

 

They made canoes by burning first then scraping the softened wood with shells, we all got to try

They made canoes by burning first then scraping the softened wood with shells, we all got to try

This is an old fashioned lathe...really neat

This is an old fashioned lathe…really neat

Bill got very excited about 1500's brew making

Bill got very excited about 1500’s brew making

 

 

 

 

I wouldn't mess with him...he's fierce

I wouldn’t mess with Bill… seriously he’s fierce

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The ship replica

The ship replica

The Ship

The Ship

Dinghy with Roanoke Village in the background

Dinghy with Roanoke Village in the background

Bill spent quite a bit of time talking to the first mate

Bill spent quite a bit of time talking to the first mate

Lee's beautiful picture

Lee’s beautiful picture

 

This almost was the Black and white winner

This almost was the black and white winner. (There are an unsettling number of pictures of  Greg putting his tongue on things. – Lee)

Lee's grumpy about mixing corn

Lee’s grumpy about mixing corn

Greg made Lee laugh so hard...let's just say one of the Indian names sounded a little dirty and like the 12 year old boys they are they had a huge laugh over it

Greg made Lee laugh so hard…let’s just say one of the Indian names sounded a little dirty and like  12-year-old boys they had a huge laugh over it 🙂

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Great recreations in the museum

Great recreations in the museum

Lee is duck hunting..there are ducks on the ceiling with sensors

Lee is duck hunting..there are ducks on the ceiling with sensors

Lee hated doing this but humored me...I think it's super cute

Lee hated doing this but humored me…I think it’s super cute

How can Greg still look cool in this gettup?? Got me but he rocks it

How can Greg still look cool in this gettup?? Got me but he rocks it

It was a really fun day, topped off by an excellent All American dinner made by Cori and Greg.  Can’t wait to see what happens next!
(More misleading foreshadowing…-Lee)

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