Cats and Bats

Ok so it’s really just one cat, (OK, really just one kitten) and a bat house that doesn’t have any bats in it YET, but I couldn’t pass up the chance for a rhyming blog post name 🙂

Getting a cat has been on my want list for several years now but Lee is super sensitive to ammonia and in such a small space I never could talk him into it. But when we moved into a house it was at the top of my list with the caveat that the litter box would be in my office. Finding a kitten turned out to be very easy though and ultimately, I chose a shelter that didn’t have a ton of weird adoption rules. I know it’s important that shelter animals go to good homes, but I wasn’t interested in signing my name in blood or having a home inspection to get one. Thankfully I found an old school shelter where with a minimum of hassle we could get a cat.

I initially wanted one about four months old because I thought that would be young enough to get along with Jack but also old enough to hold her own. Unfortunately, I also wanted a female (they make better mousers) and the only ones they had were 13 weeks old. I ended up with a really cute one though and she snuggled with me all the way home. To be safe Lee went in first and took Jack for a walk while I brought the kitten in. As soon as we got close to the door she went crazy. She started squirming and bit me hard in the flesh above the thumb…TWICE! Thankfully I dropped her inside and she immediately ran under the chair.

She was freaked out and I was surprised but I let her be while I set up her food and water and litter box. Then I fetched her from under the couch and held her while Jack came back in. It’s important to note two things. First Jack has been an only child for his entire life and it turns out he’s a bit spoiled. Second he has been smelling stray cats at various RV parks for years and is not a fan. But I held the cat and Lee held the dog and we managed our first introduction. It didn’t go great but nobody got bit so I took the cat into my office for some alone time.

Jack was super unhappy about being left out of the room but I stayed with her and then we left her in there for several hours. She made a home under the chair and pretty much stayed there. For the next couple of days we tried a variety of introductions and even put a hook on my office door so it could be open enough for the cat to go through but not the dog, and the cat and dog could look at each other and smell each other through the crack. That actually seemed to help but I was getting nervous because Monday was a workday and I wasn’t sure how this was all going to go. I couldn’t keep my office door shut all day especially if he was going to sit and whine at it so Lee said it was time for them to work it out on their own.

Thankfully if I was in the room everyone played nice, but I was still worried about when we went to bed. After a couple of somewhat restless nights, I heard a hiss and a yelp and assume that the cat nailed Jack on the nose. Things got better after that and within a week they were doing much better. Now they sleep together and snuggle and even drink out of the same bowl although they occasionally get on each other’s nerves. We made sure we kept Jack third in the pack by feeding him first but also let him know when he’s getting too rough.

Everyone has their own thoughts about how to work these introductions, but I will say it was ALOT more work than I expected. Part of that is overcoming Jack’s high predator instinct and the other was that the kitten was so small I was pretty worried. Now that’s she’s bigger its less of a concern but frankly I will be glad when she is full sized and on more of an equal footing. Oh, and we named her Moxie, which Jack understands and when are looking for her he will search the house with us and often finds her first and bark to let us know he found her. Another thing I have never seen a dog do 🙂

Oh, one last thing, we bought a robot litter box (an off brand, not the $900 one, we’re not Rockefellers) and although it works well the “fragrance” they add to the litter is a bit overwhelming in my office. We are trying unscented cat litter next, but we are also discussing moving the litter box into the hall linen closet. That’s a huge concession for Lee and I appreciate it.

Another thing I really wanted was a bat house. We saw firsthand in Oregon how bats can help with mosquitos and since we had an open field and we are near a water source we’re in a good location. Buying the bat house was pretty easy but the pole was super hard. The ones online are crazy expensive ($120 and up), but they also don’t have them in many local stores. We discussed other options but at 12-20 feet high choices are limited. You can mount them on a building but it’s really not recommended and after a month of looking Lee actually found a telescoping pole for a martin house on clearance for $69!! We picked it up the day we got the cat and a few days later he mounted it next to one of our fence posts in a spot I picked out. This was no small job, and needed a little modifying so they would work together and I really appreciated it.

The good news is it is very sturdy. The bad news is it is unlikely we will get any bats until next spring because we waited too long. Still, it’s up, and a big checkmark off the list and Lee got to do something he had never done before. There has been a lot of that for both of us and since we are no longer throwing money at problems (back to living on a budget!) we are learning how to do things ourselves. Next up is chickens, and if I thought the kitten was hard, wow was that crazy.

Quick Update: The unscented Tidy cat was much better, but my eyes still feel itchy. I am guessing it the dust because as long as I have a fan circulating it doesn’t bother me as much. Definitely want to move the litter box to the utility closet.

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What’s Better in a House Than an RV

I have spent the past ten years writing honestly about the pros and cons of living in an RV so I think it’s fair to spend a minute talking about what is better (for us at least) living in a house. This is by no means an either-or blog post but I want to capture the things I am really enjoying while it’s still fresh in my mind. These aren’t in any particular order but rather what comes to mind.

Dishwasher – Yes, some RVs come with dishwashers, but we never had one and personally I have hand washed enough dishes to last a lifetime. It’s not only that the dishes never felt as clean but also the never-ending fight to keep dirty dishes out of the sink. With a dishwasher we can rinse the dish after eating and pop it in the dishwasher where it can sit for a few days. With hand washing even rinsing wont keep the bugs away and the unsightliness of dishes in the sink (which was also just two feet from my professiomnal workspace) was a constant pain.

Dedicated Office Space – Speaking of which it is awesome having an office where I can shut the door. My shared office space was also the kitchen and forced Lee to wear headphones all day to avoid listening to my calls. He can now talk on the phone without going outside and I can talk on the phone and not worry how loud I am being. It’s really great and for me at least there is really no substitute.

Washer AND Dryer – We had a combination washer/dryer in the RV which was nice but only did small loads and Lee was constantly hanging items to get them completely dry. There was also just more wrinkles with that method and having a full size washer and dryer large enough to do bedding is a real treat. Previously we had to go to laundromats for some items and frankly I have rarely met a laundromat I liked. The ample space for ironing (not that we do that a lot) is also really nice.

Big Kitchen – I have never lived in a house with this big of a kitchen and it’s fantastic. Tons of counter space and room to move around and we aren’t on top of each other so much if we are both in there. It also has tons of counter space and pantry space so instead of our food being stuck in nooks and crannies we can now clearly see everything we have which is pretty awesome. This was #1 on my list when buying a house and I am super glad I stuck to my guns on this.

Bathtub – I was an avid bath taker before going on the road but after 10 years of only showers I will say that is my preference. That being said it is nice to have one and when the weather gets colder, I think it will be nice to go in for a long soak. I already bought some bubble bath for when I am ready!

Stable Foundation – No I am not talking metaphorically, I actually mean a solid foundation to walk on. One of the interesting things about an RV is when you set up your RV is rarely completely level and because your position changes frequently around the time you get used to it, things change. Don’t get me wrong this house floor isn’t totally level, but it is consistently not level if that makes sense so I am not falling over when I get up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom. It’s the little things in life 🙂

Owning land – We intentionally bought a piece of property with mature trees and since I love trees so much that’s really special. Sure, there is responsibility that goes along with ownership but there is also pride in the feeling that this is my land. The closest I ever got to that feeling on the road was our National Parks which technically we all own.

Freezer – Over the years we talked about adding a chest freezer but it’s complicated and having a full-size standup freezer is really nice. We can take advantage of sales or buy meat in bulk and especially for Lee who likes a lot of frozen vegetables on hand this is a huge improvement.

Garage Space – Lee has carried many tools over the years in the RV or our truck but he had to make do with the limited space we have. He is really enjoying spreading out all of those tools and creating a workspace which certainly makes projects much easier.

There are many more improvements and it’s interesting how much joy we are finding again in those little things we used to take for granted. Of course there are negative tradeoffs as well, but I think it was worth mentioning what we really like about being in a house again.

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Making a House a Home

You can pay money for a house. You can move into that house. You can even start improvements on that house. But for me at least those steps don’t make a house a home. It’s been such a long time since I have had a house, at first I thought it was just a transition problem, but honestly this feels quite a bit like the first house we ever bought and just like then it felt a bit like we were “playing house.” Weird right for a 58-year-old woman? But I try to own my feelings at this age, and it just didn’t feel permanent to me.

I have no doubt that some of that was 10 years of moving from place to place with a built-in lack of permanence and I hoped that as we started to make the house “our own” that would change. Lee was tremendously helpful with this because I have been working a lot so he had me post a list on the fridge of my top 5 items I wanted done. Simultaneously he worked on things he cared about as well and slowly we started to change the space.

One of my favorite things he did was turn the large breezeway/mud room into a HUGE pantry. He hung shelves on the walls, built freestanding shelves for canned goods, and turned this weird awkward space into an amazing room. I also found a space for all of my magnets from our travels, and now I really like it in there. One of the best things he bought was a couple of cabinets and a countertop from FB Marketplace and now I have a space I can use to plant or do canning. At the moment it’s a GREAT space to unbag groceries when they get here without making a mess of the kitchen. VERY cool.

At the same time, I decided I was going to try and plant a fall garden, and he helped me tackle the crazy weird situation out there. In the month between the offer and closing we had a wall of thistle and other weeds that were well over our heads, and to clear all that out was a multi-day effort. Lee used a brush cutter attachment on the weedeater, then I would hand remove the thistles then he did it again. My in-laws gave me a nice little roto tiller (lifesaver) and I tilled the ground and then shoveled out whatever was left. It took over a week to get it all done (we could only work part of each day because of the heat) and I was able to plant some corn, green beans, and snow peas. I planted from seeds and wasn’t sure how that would go but this is good dirt, and I am shocked by how quickly I have gotten sprouts. Very cool! During this process I also for the first time in my life created a compost pile which was a layer of cardboard, layer of vegetation, over and over again, I stopped when the pile got to about 4 feet tall and I am pretty proud of the effort. Better for the environment and hopefully at some point I will have mulch and/or soil.

Oh and guess what! Back in the corner totally surrounded with weeds we discovered two huge rasberry bushes!! Very cool. It was a bear getting the weeds out of there, but there is already tons of fruit.

The beginning of my compost heap
It doesn’t look like much in the pictures but that is all the weeds from the garden, most of the cardboard boxes we have been ordering, and the straw and llama poop from the barn stalls. It took more trips than I can count to make this pile.

So, the outside areas were starting to feel like mine but the house not so much. Part of that was we were still waiting on living room furniture so when the couch and chair came and we finally got it arranged that made a big difference. Ultimately, I talked Lee into hanging the TV on the wall and putting the couch underneath it and the room really works now. Plus, it was all in time for Wimbledon which I have rarely gotten to watch the last ten years but with a DVR and cable I could watch to my heart’s content.

Original TV placement on a temporary stand the previous owners left behind.

The original couch placement Lee and Jack loved but I felt shoved in the corner in my new chair (which is awesome by the way) but admittedly too big for the room.

Just didn’t work for me
This works sooo much better! Oh and Jack loves the rug I bought. He’s much happier with less hardwood floor!

There were other things along the way that really mattered to me. Lee installed a screen door in the front which was awesome and although he was worried it was actually as easy as could be and only took him 15 minutes!

We also got some housewarming presents from a couple of people that were really nice and had some visitors which was great!

One of the other things that made it start to feel like home was when we got the rest of our storage tubs from DeDe and Denny’s. It was mostly T-Shirts from our travels (Lee has enough literally to last until he dies) but there were a few treasures in there including this colander my mom gave me that I kept all these years.

Overall, the thing that had the most impact was the first night we had a steak dinner. It took a few weeks to be able to sit down and have a nice meal, but that moment felt very special. For us home is truly where the steak is 🙂

It still doesn’t feel like home quite yet, but we are getting there, and I am about to fill it with animals which I think will make all the difference. That’s in the next post!

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Lots of Inspections

We knew going in that the house we bought had its quirks and Lee decided very early on he wanted a series of inspectors to look at different aspects of the house and give us quotes on various upgrades and to get a head start on anything that would need attention. Although some of the inspections came at a cost, overall knowledge is power and since we only had a specific pot of money to work with it was important to get quotes and then prioritize enhancements/repairs. Turns out our house inspector for the loan was VERY good so happily no nasty surprises but we did learn a lot about the house along the way and what was actually possible. Since we have had professionals in and out of the house for the last two weeks I am not going to list them in order but I will group the experiences by category.

Water Softener – We lived in a house with a well and an inadequate softener for six years when we were younger and know firsthand how unpleasant that can be. Iron heavy water stains sinks, and toilet and water doesn’t taste good along with having an unpleasant smell. The water here wasn’t terrible, but it wasn’t great, and I wouldn’t drink it unfiltered. Worst of all the softener was down in the scary dirt cellar, and I had serious concerns about how we would carry a 40lb bag of salt down those steps. So, a high priority was getting that softener on the first floor, but I wasn’t confident it wouldn’t be super expensive. Quick story to show you how serious this is to me. When we left the 6 years with a well I had lots of iron deposits in my hair weighing it down. I went to a hair place that “stripped” the iron out and the smell of rotten eggs from that process was overwhelming. I couldn’t believe how much the texture of my hair changed after that experience and I know I never want to have that many deposits in my hair again!

Thankfully we had an amazing experience. For $3800 we got a new installed softener and better yet filtered water at the sink, and they even ran a new filtered line to the fridge. The salesperson was knowledgeable, and the installers were terrific and best of all I can monitor and fill the salt myself. Truly this was a game changer, and I am so grateful that this change was affordable. We also found out that our land was on an underground lake with a near limitless supply of water which really made me feel good!

Electric: Although our electric panel has open breaker spots, we had no idea what capacity we could add without upgrading the service to the house. or what the cost would be. A good friend of ours recommended an electrician and we learned that we could add a single 50 amp circuit. This was good and bad since we wanted a hot tub and a kiln but we learned we could only have one initially before having to upgrade to 200amp service. The distance we needed to run wire also was a more significant cost than we initially thought, which ruled out running 50 amp for an RV spot on the property. The hot tub with trenched wiring was a pretty reasonable $2700, but the upgraded service, additional panels, garage wiring, and kiln wiring will run $14K. Not great, but at least we know.

Chimneys – There are two fireplaces with separate chimneys in the house but they were both designated “decorative only”, which means at some point someone disocvered that they weren’t safe and didn’t want to fix them, so I wanted to know what it would take to make them working fireplaces. This service call costs around $400 (which was NOT disclosed to us over the phone) and ultimately all we learned was it would be FAR more money than we wanted to spend to make either one of them a working fireplace. We did discuss turning it into a propane fireplace but unfortunately the chimney would need to be lined for that and again, pretty expensive. After that information we decided we will probably buy an electric insert, and we learned Lee will need to put a cap on the two fireplaces before winter for weather and critters.

Septic – Once Lee completed the initial mowing (see picture below), he found a section of yard next to the house that was SUPER soggy. Like a swamp. Stepping on that area you would sink 4 inches immediately. We were both really upset because although we bought the house “As-Is” the seller did sign a disclosure saying there were no issues and and provided a receipt from a local septic company for a septic lid crack that was repaired. We called the same company back out and after researching they validate the septic system was fine (whew) but the sump pump discharges into this weird sepearate system, and someone previously had routed the diascharge from the washer into the same system, instead of through the septic system. Pretty crazy DIY nonsense, but was not causing any immediate issue and should be relatively easy to fix, we just have to live with the soggy corner for a while. No health hazard, no property risk, just a minor annoyance.

You can’t really tell from the picture but the ground was super soggy and the owner knew, because there was a stake in the ground showing his mowing contractor where NOT to mow.

Windows – About half of the windows are original and half are vinyl replacements, and the older aluminum windows are the crank open style, and all of the cranks are broken or missing. So we wanted to get quotes to replace those. Also, one of my main goals when buying a house was to have an office with a view. Unfortunately, my window is pretty small and for some reason at like 5’5″, so we started discussing enlarging the window or better yet adding a sliding glass door. We had a recommendation for a small window company, and they came out and gave us somewhat reasonable quotes. ALL of the windows we want to replace and the door came back at $12.5K, but the sliding glass door by itself was $5K. We were pretty excited about that price since a larger hole had to be cut, but when the technician came out to look at the house he stated he couldn’t do it because our house was block.

Turns out around 10% of the houses in our area have block outside (with a frame and plaster inside) and in order to verify that I actually had to have him drill a small hole in the wall. Cutting block is done by a mason and hardly any window companies do it and Lee and I were both pretty annoyed that the salesperson didn’t catch that. Actually, I was beyond annoyed and crazy disappointed. The one window company who said they would do it wanted $8K so Lee decided to go to a mason. The mason will charge less but still a lot, but we would need the hole framed and the sliding door installed which is probably beyond our abilities. Structural integrity comes into play as well and now you are coordinating two different companies. All in all super expensive and tricky. But we are in the process of figuring out a way forward, because this is a VERY high priority for both of us.

Propane – The propane company came out and filled the propane and Lee wanted to check into running a propane line closer to the house for our grill, possibly a propane stove, and possibly a propane dryer and water heater in the future. A second person had to come out and that took a little longer but it’s good because the cost to run the line for the grill is only $400. I say “only” because at this point that’s a steal. There was some confusion though because the propane company has to do external lines, but interior line is handled by a plumber. Oh and one really nice thing is a third person came out and cleaned the propane tank and checked it for structural integrity. We didn’t ask for that but it was a very nice free service the propane company provided.

Floors – Lastly this house has a variety of older wood floors in it and they were all a bit dusty especially after moving in. We were not sure if we were going to need to replace some of the flooring but after some discussion we splurged and bought a robot floor cleaner (our first) and wow did that make a difference. The little guy is really amazingly good at what he does, and the floors have literally sparkled since he took over. To be honest I always thought these purchases were a bit overkill but I am a total fan now and don’t think I will ever want to live without one again. Big big fan.

All in all there was a mix of good news and bad news but at least we have the information going forward. Since we are committed to not going into further debt this is a definite pay as you go situation and we will determine priorities based on a variety of things. We knew moving back into a house our costs would definitely go up and we don’t have a full picture yet of what our monthly nut will be. Once we get that information it will allow us to put together a plan.

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